sublimesting
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Have you thrown the cake out or given it away? My weakness is chocolate so I try to keep it out of the house or put it somewhere that I can't reach it. Every moment is a chance to start over. I tend to be an all or nothing type person and was stuck in the mindset of "oh well, I can have that piece of cake because I've already had one today so I've blown it. I'll start again tomorrow.". It's dangerous to think that way and has taken me a long time to temper it. You should have your (small) piece of cake but work out harder or cut back your calories somewhere else that day. Life is far too short to skip the things we enjoy altogether.
I'm definately watching and will be happy to call all of you out! :ROFLOL:
I'm totally all or nothing too! It took awhile to think long haul and overall picture not just a daily snapshot. I would always think "Well I had a piece of cake at work so when I get home I am haviing 7 beers and a bag of chips and will really buckle down tomorrow. Even worse I'd do that for a week. Well, I blew Monday and Tuesday so I'll start again next Monday. What was a 450 calroie hit on a diet in one piece of cake turned into a 3000 calroie blowout. Instead of thinkg well I had 2500 calories today but it will taper out over a few days of doing well, I'd think well 2500 calories ruins the diet for today.
I got into the mind set by dieting. The lifestyle change made me realize that I could have snacks every once in awhile and taper it with good eating and over the course of a week a few snakcs won't hurt and I didn't "ruin" my diet.