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Wondering if the disney magic is strong enough to find love

BeachClubVillas

Well-Known Member
You know, I've been noticing this thread over the last couple of days but never took the time to read it until now. And I have to say, DisneyMemories, that I feel exactly the same way you do. I really feel like I'm never going to find my Mr. Right and am going to end up a Cat Lady. I'm only 21, but I'm shy and I'm totally not into the whole clubbing and drinking until you pass out thing, which makes me somewhat of an anomaly in college! Two of my closest friends got married last summer, and two others are engaged. I see what they have and I want it so bad it hurts. Guys just look right through me though, just because I'm a little overweight and I'm quiet. Once you get to know me, though, I can be pretty funny. It's really important to me to find someone who loves Disney as much as I do (so it's probably a good idea to stay on these boards!) Plus, I'm studying to be an elementary school teacher, so it's not like there's going to be eligible men crawling around work! I'm just about ready to give up. :brick:
 

Wilt Dasney

Well-Known Member
BeachClubVillas said:
You know, I've been noticing this thread over the last couple of days but never took the time to read it until now. And I have to say, DisneyMemories, that I feel exactly the same way you do. I really feel like I'm never going to find my Mr. Right and am going to end up a Cat Lady. I'm only 21, but I'm shy and I'm totally not into the whole clubbing and drinking until you pass out thing, which makes me somewhat of an anomaly in college! Two of my closest friends got married last summer, and two others are engaged. I see what they have and I want it so bad it hurts. Guys just look right through me though, just because I'm a little overweight and I'm quiet. Once you get to know me, though, I can be pretty funny. It's really important to me to find someone who loves Disney as much as I do (so it's probably a good idea to stay on these boards!) Plus, I'm studying to be an elementary school teacher, so it's not like there's going to be eligible men crawling around work! I'm just about ready to give up. :brick:

Sounds like somebody could use a brandy and a backrub.

*limbers up fingers....to pour* :animwink:

:lookaroun
 

Wilt Dasney

Well-Known Member
Erika said:
Are you trying to get her drunk and passed out?

:lookaroun

And this would be a bad thing? :lookaroun

I'm just trying to demonstrate that there are slightly decent fellas hanging around....far, far from Boston, perhaps, but around the continent, at any rate. :p
 

BeachClubVillas

Well-Known Member
Wilt Dasney said:
I'm just trying to demonstrate that there are slightly decent fellas hanging around....far, far from Boston, perhaps, but around the continent, at any rate. :p

Thanks for the kind words. It's good to know there are decent guys out there, even if they are far away from me!
 

DisneyMemories

New Member
Original Poster
Theres alot of decent guys out there yet,do what l'm trying to and that is not give up hope,and keep a prayer and a wish in your heart. :)
 

tigger248

Well-Known Member
BeachClubVillas said:
You know, I've been noticing this thread over the last couple of days but never took the time to read it until now. And I have to say, DisneyMemories, that I feel exactly the same way you do. I really feel like I'm never going to find my Mr. Right and am going to end up a Cat Lady. I'm only 21, but I'm shy and I'm totally not into the whole clubbing and drinking until you pass out thing, which makes me somewhat of an anomaly in college! Two of my closest friends got married last summer, and two others are engaged. I see what they have and I want it so bad it hurts. Guys just look right through me though, just because I'm a little overweight and I'm quiet. Once you get to know me, though, I can be pretty funny. It's really important to me to find someone who loves Disney as much as I do (so it's probably a good idea to stay on these boards!) Plus, I'm studying to be an elementary school teacher, so it's not like there's going to be eligible men crawling around work! I'm just about ready to give up. :brick:

I know just how you feel. I'm sorta the same way. I've never been to a club, which makes me unlike most college students (especially since I've been 21 for nearly six months!). I'm not overweight, but I wouldn't consider myself attractive either. I'm not shy once I get to know someone, but I am when I don't know people, which makes it that much harder to meet people. But, I s'pose if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. Hopefully love will happen eventually. I prefer to stay optimistic and to believe that someday my prince will come. Don't give up. Your prince is waiting, you just haven't found him yet. To quote Prince Eric, "When I find (him) I'll know. Without a doubt, it'll just bam hit me. Like lightning."
 

stranger

New Member
BeachClubVillas said:
You know, I've been noticing this thread over the last couple of days but never took the time to read it until now. And I have to say, DisneyMemories, that I feel exactly the same way you do. I really feel like I'm never going to find my Mr. Right and am going to end up a Cat Lady. I'm only 21, but I'm shy and I'm totally not into the whole clubbing and drinking until you pass out thing, which makes me somewhat of an anomaly in college! Two of my closest friends got married last summer, and two others are engaged. I see what they have and I want it so bad it hurts. Guys just look right through me though, just because I'm a little overweight and I'm quiet. Once you get to know me, though, I can be pretty funny. It's really important to me to find someone who loves Disney as much as I do (so it's probably a good idea to stay on these boards!) Plus, I'm studying to be an elementary school teacher, so it's not like there's going to be eligible men crawling around work! I'm just about ready to give up.

Trust me you're not missing out by not going to any clubs. Besides, you’re not likely to find a meaningful relationship there anyhow. Your best bet is to go to places and do things that you like and you will find someone that you have something in common with. Besides, any guy worth getting to know will not care about only your physical appearance. :)
 

Erika

Moderator
stranger said:
Trust me you're not missing out by not going to any clubs. Besides, you’re not likely to find a meaningful relationship there anyhow. Your best bet is to go to places and do things that you like and you will find someone that you have something in common with. Besides, any guy worth getting to know will not care about only your physical appearance. :)

That's some of the best advice I've seen in this thread.
 

DDuckFan130

Well-Known Member
BeachClubVillas said:
You know, I've been noticing this thread over the last couple of days but never took the time to read it until now. And I have to say, DisneyMemories, that I feel exactly the same way you do. I really feel like I'm never going to find my Mr. Right and am going to end up a Cat Lady. I'm only 21, but I'm shy and I'm totally not into the whole clubbing and drinking until you pass out thing, which makes me somewhat of an anomaly in college! Two of my closest friends got married last summer, and two others are engaged. I see what they have and I want it so bad it hurts. Guys just look right through me though, just because I'm a little overweight and I'm quiet. Once you get to know me, though, I can be pretty funny. It's really important to me to find someone who loves Disney as much as I do (so it's probably a good idea to stay on these boards!) Plus, I'm studying to be an elementary school teacher, so it's not like there's going to be eligible men crawling around work! I'm just about ready to give up. :brick:
I totally know how you feel. And it's funny you mention it, because my friends are dragging me to a club tomorrow :hurl:. My friend's excuse is that we're young and should do this because we never do it. I basically said "Dancing is dancing and I don't see why we can't dance when we're older, without a club necessarily." Anyhoo, I love to dance but I feel really uncomfortable at clubs because I don't look like the girls there. They all dress "less than modest" and act "less than modest." It's really pathetic but whatever. I agree with Roxxy, I definitely won't find anyone real decent at a club :lol:.

See now I'm in a "guys are scum" mood :lol: because so many are shallow.


Ok I'm over it because most of the guys on these boards are great :D.
 

WDWScottieBoy

Well-Known Member
DDuckFan130 said:
Ok I'm over it because most of the guys on these boards are great :D.

Awww :blushes: thanks! :wave:

I'm in love with my fiance-to-be (love that name instead of girlfriend) Melissa (DitzeeChick02 on here). She tells me I'm perfect because I don't look for outer beauty in anyone, I don't say anything about anyone until I know them personally and get to know the real person, the person inside the skin, where the beauty lives. (kind of like where the magic lives, lol) I was almost 18 when I found her and thought about giving up realy early because no one like me for me, until I met her. I finally found someone who cares and am very proud that I did. Oh yeah, and we both love Disney (me A LOT more than her) but it helps.

Um...sorry if that didn't make sense, but if you wait, you will find love. Let it come to you, you'll find it in the most unexpected time and place. Looking for love won't do much but make you hurt more.
 

DDuckFan130

Well-Known Member
WDWScottieBoy said:
Awww :blushes: thanks! :wave:

I'm in love with my fiance-to-be (love that name instead of girlfriend) Melissa (DitzeeChick02 on here). She tells me I'm perfect because I don't look for outer beauty in anyone, I don't say anything about anyone until I know them personally and get to know the real person, the person inside the skin, where the beauty lives. (kind of like where the magic lives, lol) I was almost 18 when I found her and thought about giving up realy early because no one like me for me, until I met her. I finally found someone who cares and am very proud that I did. Oh yeah, and we both love Disney (me A LOT more than her) but it helps.

Um...sorry if that didn't make sense, but if you wait, you will find love. Let it come to you, you'll find it in the most unexpected time and place. Looking for love won't do much but make you hurt more.
Aww that's so sweet :cry:.

Thanks for your kind words :kiss:.
 

WDWScottieBoy

Well-Known Member
DDuckFan130 said:
Aww that's so sweet :cry:.

Thanks for your kind words :kiss:.

What can I say, I'm a genuine guy who is sweet. I think that's one reason it took so long to find the perfect person. I was always the person who was everyone's best friend. I become friends with everyone very easily and end up becoming too good of friends that it's at the point where you don't want to start a relationship because you're afraid you'll lose the friendship. Luckily I found the one where the relationship is about as perfect as it gets and the friendship will never die.

And you're very welcome! I love helping everyone out and making new friends, as shy as I might be.
 

barnum42

New Member
DDuckFan130 said:
See now I'm in a "guys are scum" mood :lol: because so many are shallow.
I always hear about women looking for a "nice" guy. Thing is, it's been my experience that whilst many will say that, the aspects of a male they find attractive are those relating to being an arrogant barstuard .

I can be having a conversation with a girl who is spouting about how wonderful it is to be able to talk to a caring male who is not totally self-centred and a complete git. Then they leave with the loud mouth yob who caught their eye. :rolleyes:

It seems that nice is desired, just not found attractive.
 

barnum42

New Member
BeachClubVillas said:
I'm totally not into the whole clubbing and drinking until you pass out thing, which makes me somewhat of an anomaly in college!
I'm a ways past college age, but clubbing and drinking until you pass out is still the norm here. Well - before passing out you are expected to vomit, get into a fight with bonus points for using broken glass, eat a kebab or curry and copulate with a stranger.
 

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