wvdisneyfamily
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We were turned away once for showing up after our FP time. Sometimes they are very strict on the time window.
Again, I do not think that it is the "getting in for cheaper" that bothers a lot of people. I think that the rub is that a person who is doing this could be setting a bad example for the child
Walking into MK one day, I had a friend tell her daughter, "If anyone asks, tell them you're 9" when in reality she was 10.
I couldn't believe it. This just isn't something I would do - you're not just telling the kid it's ok to lie, you're encouraging it - even ordering it!
My daughter had just turned 10, but was younger than her daughter, and we paid full price for her. My friend was annoyed with us - she couldn't understand why we would pay full price when we could have easily gotten our daughter in for the child rate like she did.
Just because you can get away with something doesn't mean you should. Be a parent, set an example, and do the right thing.
Please do not take what I said as judgemental. I am only stating the argument. I know you did not quote me but I get the feeling that my posts were on your mind when you wrote the post. My personal opinion on the matter is that I do not necessarily mind if people try and do some of these things. (Heck, I am from N.Y. home of the greased palm for a better seat or better table) My problem comes when the person gets caught and gets mad and and becomes beligerent about it. I am not saying that you would do that but I have seen people who have.I always stay on Disney Property...usually at POP or the campgrounds....if I stay at the campgrounds I take the boat to the MK..but I will tell you ..that as far as I can remember if I am staying at POP..I will park at the Polynesian and I will take the monarail to the MK and stay there all day long...
I LOATHE the parking lot and the trams..so I just make it easier on myself..
Now some may say I am wrong and some may say it does not matter...but it is what I do and have been doing for years..I have never had a problem parking there and I have never been told I had a set amount of time to stay in the parking lot...:shrug:I also know of a lot of other people that have done the same thing with no problem at all.
Doug..as for the pool thing..we used to do that when we were little all the time..go swimming at the Poly..I still remember some of the people we met there doing the same thing.
No matter what...people are going to have something to say about lying and stealing and setting a better example for your kids...
So while I may not get Maggie in free till she is 5..or whether I only use the pool at the resort I am staying at..it is not my place to judge people who do those things...
Absolutely. However, we should always strive for that ideal.I read it and I applaud YOU. There is so much to deal with in life that we really shouldn't sweat the small stuff.
I have an autistic child that I will be taking care of for the rest of my life. When we go to Disney, I go out of my way when I spot a family with someone who has disabilities (yes, I have this autism radar going at all times and I can spot them from a mile away!) I try to give them some tips so that their Disney experience will be more enjoyable and memorable, like others have done for me. I believe in PAY IT FORWARD.
And if anyone on this forum is totally and completely 100% honest 24/7, I tip my hat to you, but that would be a rarity. We are all human and THAT doesn't make us perfect...
:lol:It is okay..I was really just stating it to everyone...Please do not take what I said as judgemental. I am only stating the argument. I know you did not quote me but I get the feeling that my posts were on your mind when you wrote the post. My personal opinion on the matter is that I do not necessarily mind if people try and do some of these things. (Heck, I am from N.Y. home of the greased palm for a better seat or better table) My problem comes when the person gets caught and gets mad and and becomes beligerent about it. I am not saying that you would do that but I have seen people who have.
Absolutely. However, we should always strive for that ideal.
If a family is pool hopping and one of their children slips and falls while running around that pool deck and cracks his or her head open and is seriously injured, who is responsible?:veryconfu
I guess it becomes a problem when the pool is one of the major selling points for staying at a certain resort, such as Stormalong Bay at YC/BC.
The cost of the pool, unlike the cost of dining at a restaurant, is included in your room rate. It's all wrapped up together in the deluxe package, which costs more than staying at a value, or off site.
It may be irritating to some to not be able to find a chair, or have to wait in line for a longer amount of time for the slide, because people who have not paid for that amenity (the fancier pool) are using it.
Guests have not paid extra for a FP, so it isn't an issue (to me) if someone comes late.
People have paid extra (through their increased room rate compared to a comprable offsite hotel) for EMH, so it may be irritating to see someone who is not a guest getting the same benefit.
The same goes for someone lying about a child's age. If person A has paid for his 4 year old, and person B has lied, and gotten the child in free, it is annoying.
Pool hopping is fine with me as long as there is plenty of room in the pool area for everyone using to have a chair and towel. If there isn't room, then limit the access to paid guests only - fine.
You definitely hit the nail on the head here with the moral/ethical grounds. As far as my personal feelings on these, none really bother me at all. The majority do not partake in these activities, so its effect on me is likely to be negligible. Am I really going to notice if there are an extra 10, 100, or 1,000 people in the park for EMH? Probably not. The parks are big. Am I going to know about someone lying about their child's age? Not unless I hear it, and even then I'd probably just find the humor in it. As far as pool hopping, unless the pool is packed with people, it is not even an issue in the first place. And as far as fastpass return times go, I didn't care about it as a CM and I don't care about it as a guest.Interesting topic - and interesting answers. Relativism 101.
I'll try to answer the OP's question - but I'm not sure if the OP is asking which is ethically worse, or which I find the most annoying personally. If I were to answer on moral/ethical grounds:
Anything that involves lying or stealing would be ranked highest. Since the child ticket issue involves both, I rank that the worst. You're lying about your child's age, and stealing directly from Disney.
I would put pool hopping and EMH wristbands tied for 2nd. Both involve dishonesty and deception instead of outright lying. Both are not stealing monetary value, per se, but rather getting more value than what entitled for, based on what you paid.
I would not consider FP window an ethical violation on any level, because it involves neither lying, dishonesty, or theft. Plus, Disney CMs will confirm that it is allowed. They, obviously, would not in the other 3 situations.
Another Value resorter heard from.................we really need fences around the Deluxe resorts:ROFLOL::lol:I always thought that being an on-property guest at WDW meant that you were welcome to use other resort amenities such as pools. Now this is being taken away too? I guess WDW doesn't need loyal repeat customers anymore, plenty of others to take my place.
lying about the age of your child so you pay a reduced ticket rate or don't pay at all, or getting extra EMH wrist bands for people who aren't staying on property.
For me it's got to be a tie between pool hopping and the EMH wristbands as these are the two that probably affect me the most directly.
Just because I'm staying at the Hillbilly Inn on 192 for $30 a night I can't stay for extra magic hours? Gosh!
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