Basically if you choose Plan A you are saying that your girlfriend is in complete control of the relationship and that you probably won't ever get to spend time with your friends again - or only when she says gives her permission.
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Girlfriend Mad
- Thread starter markywebby
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Basically if you choose Plan A you are saying that your girlfriend is in complete control of the relationship and that you probably won't ever get to spend time with your friends again - or only when she says gives her permission.
WDWmazprty
Well-Known Member
Go without me?! How could you?!?!!? No! Never! NEVEEERRRRRRR!!!!
Skylinecar1982
New Member
Most likely with that kind of attitude she may not be in your life too long. Just go. She sounds controlling and jealous if this is something she knew you had planned for a long time.
Yodadudeman
Member
I wouldn't even think twice.
Go. Enjoy yourself. And plan a vacation in the future with her.
Go. Enjoy yourself. And plan a vacation in the future with her.
echovictor
Member
Holy high maintenance Batman! Life is too short for high maintenance relationships!
LaughingGravy
Well-Known Member
If you go, you will have a great time with your friends who also want to be there and cared enough to plan in advance, so you know you will have a good time. :king:
If she's really for you, she'll support you having a good time for a bit, as you have indeed planned on it, and she should respect that.:kiss:
If you stay home/cancel out, you will not have a good time during the time of the trip you missed out and she will break up with you shortly after in favor of that guy next door or across the street who she sees on a regular basis, but never mentions to you. They're just friends, though...for now.
He carries her groceries in and she asks him in, but doesn't tell you about it.:animwink:
She'll tell him about how you cancelled the long in advance planned trip and why.
He'll say how you should have stood your ground and that you have no ***** and then he'll say how she should go with someone with character.
Not that you don't, but that's what he'll say.:lookaroun
She'll come over one day and say "We need to talk..."
This will be within the month after the trip you didn't go on, and are still regretting, probably just after you took her out to dinner.
She will leave after the dumping and then you will be pretty upset.
You will then quietly stalk her for wasting your time and breaking your heart, forever knowing the time you could have had with your friends will never come back as you missed out on it and as life goes on, you and your friends will end up doing different things and any thought of ever planning anything like this ever again will go out the window.
Not only will you be upset, but you will be wasting expensive gasoline.
That's if your car doesn't decide to overheat and you need to call a tow truck right in front of her place, hoping she doesn't come out and see you.
You will drive past her place as you are a passenger in the tow truck , seeing the shadows in the curtains as she will be too busy to look outside, and you will cry.
Oh, just go.:lol:
Post a pic of her, so we can help determine if it is worth your trouble, or if she is simply bat**** crazy. Yes, some of us are indeed that shallow, and we can probably tell if she is bat**** crazy by a picture.
If she's really for you, she'll support you having a good time for a bit, as you have indeed planned on it, and she should respect that.:kiss:
If you stay home/cancel out, you will not have a good time during the time of the trip you missed out and she will break up with you shortly after in favor of that guy next door or across the street who she sees on a regular basis, but never mentions to you. They're just friends, though...for now.
He carries her groceries in and she asks him in, but doesn't tell you about it.:animwink:
She'll tell him about how you cancelled the long in advance planned trip and why.
He'll say how you should have stood your ground and that you have no ***** and then he'll say how she should go with someone with character.
Not that you don't, but that's what he'll say.:lookaroun
She'll come over one day and say "We need to talk..."
This will be within the month after the trip you didn't go on, and are still regretting, probably just after you took her out to dinner.
She will leave after the dumping and then you will be pretty upset.
You will then quietly stalk her for wasting your time and breaking your heart, forever knowing the time you could have had with your friends will never come back as you missed out on it and as life goes on, you and your friends will end up doing different things and any thought of ever planning anything like this ever again will go out the window.
Not only will you be upset, but you will be wasting expensive gasoline.
That's if your car doesn't decide to overheat and you need to call a tow truck right in front of her place, hoping she doesn't come out and see you.
You will drive past her place as you are a passenger in the tow truck , seeing the shadows in the curtains as she will be too busy to look outside, and you will cry.
Oh, just go.:lol:
Post a pic of her, so we can help determine if it is worth your trouble, or if she is simply bat**** crazy. Yes, some of us are indeed that shallow, and we can probably tell if she is bat**** crazy by a picture.
Skylinecar1982
New Member
blackthidot
Well-Known Member
- In the Parks
- Yes
You had it planned, she knew. Any part in her trying to make you NOT go or make you feel guilty shows that she is the type of person that will do this to you, for as long as you are with her.
Honestly...harshly honest...Tell her she is nuts and that you are going. Hold up Jay-Z's "Da Rock" sign while telling her as well.
Honestly...harshly honest...Tell her she is nuts and that you are going. Hold up Jay-Z's "Da Rock" sign while telling her as well.
captainkidd
Well-Known Member
I couldn't deal with someone like that. My wife lets me go to Disney every winter for a week with one of my friends because she knows how much I love it. You can't spend every waking moment with someone. Time away is good.
foreverbelle
Well-Known Member
I too would go. I know she may be hurt and all, but if you have had this planned and she knew about it then she should support you. If you had planned it after you had met her and not told her then that would be totally different but I don't see at this stage in your relationship that you should have to cancel all plans that you have obviously had for awhile now.
Go have fun with your friends and enjoy!
Go have fun with your friends and enjoy!
mickeysshoes
Well-Known Member
DH and I are together (for the most part) 24/7! We work together and have a cake business that we do together. We will celebrating 20 years while in Disney on the 20th!!!!
OP if she is like this now we will always be like this...go have fun and enjoy and if she still has a problem then she was not meant to be!
LaughingGravy
Well-Known Member
If you go, you will have a great time with your friends who also want to be there and cared enough to plan in advance, so you know you will have a good time. :king:
If she's really for you, she'll support you having a good time for a bit, as you have indeed planned on it, and she should respect that.:kiss:
If you stay home/cancel out, you will not have a good time during the time of the trip you missed out and she will break up with you shortly after in favor of that guy next door or across the street who she sees on a regular basis, but never mentions to you. They're just friends, though...for now.
He carries her groceries in and she asks him in, but doesn't tell you about it.:animwink:
She'll tell him about how you cancelled advance planned trip and why and he'll say how you should have stood your ground and that you have no ***** and then he'll say how she should go with someone with character.
Not that you don't, but that's what he'll say.:lookaroun
She'll come over one day and say "We need to talk..."
This will be within the month after the trip you didn't go on, and are still regretting.
She will leave after the dumping and then you will be pretty upset.
You will then quietly stalk her for wasting your time and breaking your heart, forever knowing the time you could have had with your friends will never come back as you first missed out on it and as life goes on, you and your friends will end up doing different things and any thought of ever planning anything like this ever again will go out the window.
You will drive past her place, seeing the shadows in the curtains, and you will cry.
Oh, just go.:lol:
If she's really for you, she'll support you having a good time for a bit, as you have indeed planned on it, and she should respect that.:kiss:
If you stay home/cancel out, you will not have a good time during the time of the trip you missed out and she will break up with you shortly after in favor of that guy next door or across the street who she sees on a regular basis, but never mentions to you. They're just friends, though...for now.
He carries her groceries in and she asks him in, but doesn't tell you about it.:animwink:
She'll tell him about how you cancelled advance planned trip and why and he'll say how you should have stood your ground and that you have no ***** and then he'll say how she should go with someone with character.
Not that you don't, but that's what he'll say.:lookaroun
She'll come over one day and say "We need to talk..."
This will be within the month after the trip you didn't go on, and are still regretting.
She will leave after the dumping and then you will be pretty upset.
You will then quietly stalk her for wasting your time and breaking your heart, forever knowing the time you could have had with your friends will never come back as you first missed out on it and as life goes on, you and your friends will end up doing different things and any thought of ever planning anything like this ever again will go out the window.
You will drive past her place, seeing the shadows in the curtains, and you will cry.
Oh, just go.:lol:
Scuttle
Well-Known Member
Agree. Tell her that you'll plan a trip for just you and her to go to WDW. If she complains still dump her immediately.
lighteningqueen
Well-Known Member
How long is your trip?? Tell her to book her own room and you will see her at the pool at night?? How many friends are going?? She may feel you will cheat if you have a friend she doesn't like much or does his girl like that..
MattyDrums
Member
Bros before you know what!
Cheating at Disney World?
I'm sure it happens, but I wouldn't think it would be very likely. And if this relationship is going to last, there has to be at least a bit of trust in it.
Sarabell
Well-Known Member
She´s just being selfish, cause I´m pretty sure one day she´ll plan a trip with her friends, or even a girls night out and you will not have saying on that matter. So just go, enjoy yourself and my little piece of advise is: and keep your cellphone off or in silent mode cause I can asure you she will be calling every 2 minutes ¨to check up on you and make sure you´re having a good time¨ while her true intentions will be to check up on you and make sure you DON´T have a good time. Plus she´ll cause you´re in a hurry to hang up on her to go on the next ride!!
(i had a boyfriend with control issues and that´s how it works!):wave:
(i had a boyfriend with control issues and that´s how it works!):wave: