The Girl Thread

pinkrose

pinkrose

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Laura22 said:
For those of you who are staying abstinent - GOOD FOR YOU!!! (I was a virgin when I married and it was the best thing I ever did). I recently was trained as a volunteer for the Crisis Pregnancy Center and learned a lot about STD's. STD's are SOOO popular nowadays its just plain scary. If you sleep with someone, even if you use protection, the chances of you getting an STD are HUGE!! Maybe it's not "cool" to be abstinent, but won't you be laughing when you live a happy life with your spouse while you laugh at all the "cool" people who had ______ before marriage and are suffering with herpes for the rest of their life. Do you know how many young girls are getting cervical cancer now as a result of HPV? Or how many young people have STD's in their MOUTH and THROAT because they think oral ______ is safe? The statistics are FRIGHTENING. Just be safe!! I cannot even stress enough how dangerous it is nowadays to have ______ before marriage, even with protection. A condom will NOT protect against STDs!
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I've been hearing so much about how middle school kids think it's cool to have oral ___. Makes me scared to send my kids to middle school (I have a couple of years before my son goes) since I hear it happens alot of time IN school. I wish there was some way to get through to the kids. It's so scary.
 
Testtrack321

Testtrack321

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pinkrose said:
I've been hearing so much about how middle school kids think it's cool to have oral ___. Makes me scared to send my kids to middle school (I have a couple of years before my son goes) since I hear it happens alot of time IN school. I wish there was some way to get through to the kids. It's so scary.
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Let me tell you some things.

1.) Yes it does happen.
2.) Yes it does happen in school.
3.) Yes they do think it's cool.
4.) No, you don't have to worry.

Why? Mainly because these kids don't understand or have the uber conservative parents who think not talking to their kids is the best measure to prevent this. Simply put, talk. Talk more. No, more. MORE. Not about doing it, or other things, but about appropreat things in middle school, about things you think should not happen. The truth hurts a lot, but it stings less when you find out early on. :)
 
pinkrose

pinkrose

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stranger

stranger

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pinkrose said:
I've been hearing so much about how middle school kids think it's cool to have oral ___. Makes me scared to send my kids to middle school (I have a couple of years before my son goes) since I hear it happens alot of time IN school. I wish there was some way to get through to the kids. It's so scary.
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What scares me is that many teens believe that oral ______ is not ______ at all. They view Oral ______ as a way to stay virgins and not get pregnant at all. They don’t understand that they can contract some other form of STD. The sad thing is, Oral ______ is also known and tried out in Elementry school. :(
Testtrack has the right idea with parents talking to their children about this topic.
 
pinkrose

pinkrose

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stranger said:
What scares me is that many teens believe that oral ______ is not ______ at all. They view Oral ______ as a way to stay virgins and not get pregnant at all. They don’t understand that they can contract some other form of STD. The sad thing is, Oral ______ is also known and tried out in Elementry school. :(
Testtrack has the right idea with parents talking to their children about this topic.
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Elementry school? About what grade? I don't want to talk to my kids too early... but I don't want to wait too late either. I have a 2nd grader and a 3rd grader.
 
DDuckFan130

DDuckFan130

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pinkrose said:
Elementry school? About what grade? I don't want to talk to my kids too early... but I don't want to wait too late either. I have a 2nd grader and a 3rd grader.
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This just reminded me...I'm doing field placement with a fourth grade class. The teacher (an awesome teacher) mentioned the S*x Ed course and she said she'd teach more health than anything. But as soon as she said that (and she noticed too) this boy got really excited about it. I couldn't believe how excited he got. The other kids though were nonchalant about it.

I think it really depends on your kids. If you feel they're mature enough to handle the talk, then go ahead and do it gradually. In your case though, I think you can stand to wait. Then again, I don't know your kids or their friends :lol:
 
Figment1986

Figment1986

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Woa.. this went from Dating to Reporduction???

(And here i am a senior looking for a prom date... who has only asked 2 girls out in his history and got turned down by both....)
 
stranger

stranger

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pinkrose said:
Elementry school? About what grade? I don't want to talk to my kids too early... but I don't want to wait too late either. I have a 2nd grader and a 3rd grader.
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I've heard as early as 5th and 6th grade...same age I found out. Then again this is the time when schools start giving out s e x ed classses to the kids. That's when I guess will be the best time to talk to your kids. They may have questions and who better to fill them in than you.
 
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CaptainMichael

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stranger said:
I've heard as early as 5th and 6th grade...same age I found out. Then again this is the time when schools start giving out s e x ed classses to the kids. That's when I guess will be the best time to talk to your kids. They may have questions and who better to fill them in than you.
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Well, where I'm from, 4th, 5th, and 6th grade are middle school. 7th and 8th are junior high school. We were taught ______ Ed in 7th grade. Oral ______ was never mentioned. Just the basic fundamentals.
 

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