Oh, I've gotten plenty of those, too. When DS was 3 weeks old, one of my DH's aunts was diagnosed with whooping cough. She had just been to visit my MIL a week or so before, and then my MIL started coughing horribly. She went to get tested, but it came back inconclusive. But of course, with a newborn baby, Oma and Opa were visiting us, and we were visiting them, and obviously the kids were therefore exposed to whatever it was that my MIL had, and knowing SHE had been exposed to whooping cough, there was a good chance it was that. And then both the kids started coughing....fevers, coughing....DS couldn't nurse because he was hacking, and at 3 weeks old, he hadn't had the whooping cough vaccination yet. I called the doctor, the doctor said not to worry about it...it probably wasn't whooping cough. He was swamped and no, he didn't need to check DS out, and no he wouldn't prescribe antibiotics. I was so angry that he wouldn't even let me bring him in to CHECK. My nephew was 2 and HIS doctor prescribed antibiotics without even seeing him, just because he had been exposed. And HE had already been vaccinated for it. My 3 week old was in a high risk category...70% of infants who get it have to be hospitalized. And my doctor wouldn't even let me bring him in. We waited until the office was closed and called urgent care. Urgent care told us to wait until morning and call our family doctor. DH just called back and called back and called back. Made a nuisance of himself until they finally agreed to give the kids antibiotics just in case.
But that's standard over here. You don't go to the doctor unless it's REALLY bad, and only if it won't go away for months...then they tell you that it's normal, go home. My friend's parents-in-law both died within 5 months of each other, both with cancer. Both had been to the doctor repeatedly and the doctor wouldn't do tests because he said they were old....it was normal to feel aches and pains when you're old. 6 months later, both of them were gone. The philosophy over here is to let your body heal itself. I just don't bother going to the doctor most of the time now because I knew he's not going to do anything to help me. It's pointless.