Not necessary, and almost a feeling of let down after it’s all over with. At least that’s how I felt afterwards.. not let down by the event itself, but more of ‘this is so strange not to be planning a wedding now.”
I can’t believe your friend was the same person who gave such great advice! It really was a great thing to say to you.. how could she turn into such a hateful jealous person?!
I hope she is not in your life in any capacity now.
I’ve never heard of bridesmaids choosing their own dresses!!! That would be a “HE## NO!” from me.
I took into account all of my bridesmaids body types and complexions, and I did give my maid of honor a couple of choices, I wanted them all to be happy..but they also had to fit into my vision of that day. Luckily they all loved their gowns, but I would have kicked one out of my wedding and my life if they asked to go in a completely different direction. Mind boggling that anyone would have the audacity to do such a thing.
I’m so sorry that you had to deal with that during one of the should-be happiest stages of your life. Sounds like you were better off in the end though.
Funny thing about people, they appear perfect and loving, until one specific day -they’re not. One offense can ruin a relationship if that offense is bad enough. I’ve handed out a Red Card to a few people (now formerly) in my life. Sometimes you have no other choice, no matter how “important” that person is.