We're going to focus on experience gifts for our daughter and nieces and nephews, and the adults are just getting treats.
This is going to sound really bad.... but growing up dirt poor makes it really difficult to curb spending with my own kid. I walk through the store and see something she would like that I would have LOVED as a kid, and I grab it for her. ESPECIALLY if it is on sale. Then I don't want to spoil her, so I keep it until her birthday or Christmas or Easter. But the problem is that I've been doing this year round, so when those holidays come, she's spoiled anyway with a mountain of gifts. She's turning three in a month, so I have to stop doing this now when she doesn't realize what's going on. In another year, she'll start expecting it, and then I really will have spoiled her.
So I'm starting with the not mindlessly browsing sales at the Disney Store, and not aimlessly walking around Target for two hours when I just need a break from life. I've had a few slip ups, but overall I'm doing pretty good.
It's funny because while most little girls grow up dreaming of their wedding day, I spent my whole life dreaming about the day I could buy a cookie cutter house in the suburbs and commute to my job in a cubicle at an office where I had to badge in. I think I'm the only one in my building who gets excited that I have to badge in

