I like Bedhead products. Bedhead afterparty is what I use after a blowout to keep my hair frizz free. I also use Cibu products. They're made by Bubbles Salon. You can get them online. I have a heat protecting spray that I use before blow drying or using any heat product. I have a cream that I also use on my hair when it's wet.
Generally, you want products that are alcohol and sulfate free. That makes the frizz worse and can be damaging. You want to look for products that contain argon oil for smoothing out your hair. And a heat protectant before you blow dry your hair is important. It protects your hair from damage and prevents it from frizzing.
Also, I don't wash my hair everyday. When I'm on vacation, I only wash it when I've been swimming. At home, once every 3 days is all I need. In between, I either use dry shampoo (I like Herbal Essences best) or I rinse my hair out.
Best thing you can do is talk to a stylist. They can figure out exactly what's best for your hair, how to blow dry it properly, etc.
