StarWarsGirl
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Yup, different dynamic. I was the mini-adult, and he's always been pretty immature. Not that it's his fault, but it is what it is. We're also 6 1/2 years apart, 7 in school, so we've never been typical siblings. We basically have grown up like two only-children, minimal fighting. He started seeing me as an authority figure at some point and I've always been super protective of him. I guess it also helped that by the time my parents started letting us go off and do things on our own, I had been babysitting him for several years, and I was used to just letting him be at that point.Your Brother is lucky to have you.
And the Bossy thing is the reason when my two were off on their own without anyone being in charge. It just would have set up bad things to happen. And it is a never ending thing for the younger one. The dynamic is different with your brother but it is the same principal as you said don't boss around. Me, as I said often my DD was born a mini adult so her judgement was always good.