Here's a question ... a serious question ... but how much of the defending of WDW (not the Mongellos and assorted social media whores who have a financial interest in it) is based on flat out mental illness? Being in love with a BRAND at all costs and minus any sense of reality. In essence, the 'I like what I like and don't care whether it's good or not'.
I'm very interested in reading perspectives because well ... I'm tired of being told I should write a book on mental health and the Disney fan community. I know what my feelings are. And I'm trying to gather as many opinions and perspectives as I can.
Having lived in central Florida over a decade---much of that close enough to WDW to hear fireworks some nights--I will echo PhotoDave that there are not a lot of "defensive foamers" among the locals. That said, there is a significant number of people who moved here just to be near Disney. Many have other excuses, but they are just that--excuses. The reason they ended up in Orlando--not Phoenix, not Dallas--is the Mouse.
I'm no shrink, but I do think the belief that moving to a town so you can visit a theme park whenever you want, thinking that will somehow better your life in every aspect (job advancement, find a mate, be happier) probably qualifies as a form of mental illness. I don't know if Lee ever dragged you there--or how much he interacted with the locals--but the Adventurers Club was ground zero for this. The hew and cry you see for its return isn't just because it was the pinnacle of imagineering (tho, yeah, it was), but because the closing took away the one place transplanted Disney fans felt at home. Hell, I'll say it, the one place they felt normal.
Of course, for every person who makes the move to O-Town, I'm sure there's a dozen more back home with a living room of memorabilia, a closet full of T-shirts and two or three trips a year who can't quite make that jump. Those with the weakest faith are always the loudest preachers. I suspect these fans are the ones who really can't see the negative in anything TWDC does--out of fear the slightest pin prick could destroy the bubble of happiness around their escape place.
Do companies beside the TWDC encourage fandom like this? Of course. No one's ever shown me just how an iPhone is superior to a Droid for the average user [NOT asking anyone to do so now], but Apple has created the meme that if you use their products, you're cool and smart, and maybe just a little bit better than everybody else. But Disney fans do seem to take it to another level, to something, quite honestly, bordering on religion.
An aside to illustrate my point. Once a week, at least, the dining board will see a request for "local, non-chain restaurants." If you're the kind of person who wants a unique, non-chain restaurant with local flavor--then why are you vacationing at WDW? Skip the Mouse this year, try New Orleans or Savannah. But to Disney fans, a trip to WDW is a given. Everything else is secondary to that.
Sorry to ramble, but let me close by saying, yes, please write the book. Even do one of those kickstarter things, I'll pledge some bucks. I think it would be a fascinating read.