I am right there with you. At the suggestion of others on the "Spirited" thread I have been really looking at planning a Universal/Seaworld trip in place of my annual Disney trip. We visited Busch Gardens Williamsburg this past summer, and we absolutely loved that park so I am not averse to trying new parks. I have just not been hugely interested in Universal, but I am giving it a second look right now.
At this point, I figure I can keep going to Disney and spend my energy getting angry at what I see happening or I can put my money where my mouth is. I don't like MyMagic or the concept of FP+, and I just can't see visiting again until I see it rolled it and how it truly affects the vacation experience. Maybe Disney won't care much that I stopped coming because I have only stayed Deluxe once and I don't buy a lot of souvenirs.
It's sad that a place I love only sees me as a number or a revenue source to exploit. They have taken my loyalty for granted, and I have let them. I have accepted their price hikes and their stale products because a Disney vacation meant something to me. I believed in the magic. Now, I sadly realize that the relationship has been one-sided for a long time. I am sure many of the Disney executives would say, "It's business, not personal. We have to do what's best for the bottom line." To that, I quote Kathleen Kelly from You've Got Mail (don't roll your eyes at me!), "What is that supposed to mean? I am so sick of that. All that means is that it wasn't personal to you. But it was personal to me. It's *personal* to a lot of people. And what's so wrong with being personal, anyway?"
(Sorry for being melodramatic. This thread just makes me mourn what once was.)