Isn't that the truth?!? I lived in San Diego for a few years, and it was perfectly paradise-like, yet I slowly longed to move north to OC. I've had close family in San Diego for decades, and wonderful friends, and still I got bored. Love it for weekend jaunts, or Thanksgiving dinner, or sea kayaking the caves in La Jolla. But then...
I think it's the truly perfect climate, and the close-but-no-cigar location where you are near all the big stuff in SoCal but it still takes an hour or two to drive there.
However, after living in several big cities on the East Coast and the South, I have to say the populace of San Diego is clearly the most physically active and attractive (stunningly so, really) and most friendly and happy that I've ever seen in any American city. And yet that gets boring after a while. Odd how it works. :veryconfu
Yeah, when I lived in SoCal, I lived in ... well, an area with a famous zip code.
:ROFLOL: ... I liked the fact I could drive anywhere (traffic non-withstanding) fairly easily.
SD seems so ... removed ... you have to take the 5 down ... and pass through Camp Pendleton ... and ... I dunno. I think it's almost too laidback for an area of its size (a lame complaint on my part, perhaps!).
I had a good friend who unbeknownst to me had all sorts of addiction (mostly booze, though) issues who moved from SoFla to the SD area about 6-7 years ago and has become whatever the current version of a 'hippie' would be. He has a good job, but wakes up very early ... drinks all sorts of bizarre veggies/fruit/supplement smoothies ... does yoga (and this is a dude who would never have done that in Miami!) and seems very happy.
Maybe there's something in the water down there.
~GFC~