Pixieish
Well-Known Member
To add to my comment #340, above...
He's got MAJOR changes to make. The alcohol alone will need a major change to his day-to-day life for overcoming it and making that "stick". Very often, it takes creating an entire new life to overcome alcoholism/addiction away from everyone they previously knew and associated with. This is a big part of why so many relapse - they aren't willing to do that. Add to this the need to change such an ingrained behavior as is being revealed now, and the man has a hell of a lot of soul-searching and working on himself to do. Do I think he'll be successful? Unfortunately, I don't...because statistics say he won't. IF...and this is a BIG if...he does the work and wishes to re-prove himself, I would think that would warrant a second chance.
However, IMO he should seek employment elsewhere - I don't think it would be fair to those he mistreated to allow him back, even if he redeems himself.
He's got MAJOR changes to make. The alcohol alone will need a major change to his day-to-day life for overcoming it and making that "stick". Very often, it takes creating an entire new life to overcome alcoholism/addiction away from everyone they previously knew and associated with. This is a big part of why so many relapse - they aren't willing to do that. Add to this the need to change such an ingrained behavior as is being revealed now, and the man has a hell of a lot of soul-searching and working on himself to do. Do I think he'll be successful? Unfortunately, I don't...because statistics say he won't. IF...and this is a BIG if...he does the work and wishes to re-prove himself, I would think that would warrant a second chance.
However, IMO he should seek employment elsewhere - I don't think it would be fair to those he mistreated to allow him back, even if he redeems himself.