As we plan things I'm feeling a bit of guilt for Tracey. But then he seems so excited for me. And he's having fun teasing me about saving the cool stuff for my trip with my "real friends" (ie. not him). LOL! Thankfully, he'll be joining me down in Orlando for our anniversary cruise so I can focus on that when I feel bad. Now the boys, that's different. I can tell Chandler really wants to go back on the Fantasy with Tracey & me. He's working those guilt angles with skill. "Mom, I just really wanted to be with you guys on the actual 20th anniversary day. It means so much to me." Uh, okay. It'd also mean so much to me if they wouldn't slack in their school so much each spring so they'd actually finish the "year" when they're supposed to instead of...July. 2 years in a row. It'd mean so much to me to have a whole summer....and not feel like the crappiest homeschool mom ever because they lie to me & I allow them to continue to breathe. Vacation inserted during school weeks??? Not so likely nowadays. Ya know? I'm trying to be strong and keep the guilt at bay but its hard. Even when I try to keep the focus the softy-momma in me wants to take my babies by the hand and skip with them right onto the Fantasy on 9/14. But I'm not. going. to. do. it. I'm not!I feel the same way. I totally didn't feel guilty about going without my kids or husband until I started packing. Now I feel horrible. I keep thinking my family deserves to go not just me. Guess that means ill be booking us a cruise very soon.
I totally do not see you not having drinks drinks on the cruise. Remember the saying, "peer pressure is a b...h." Lol.