Trip Report I ESCAPED!!! (part 1) - The Dream Girls

PART 1 OF 2

Oh come on! Y'all didn't think I'd actually NOT post some sort of telling of the tale, did you?

#seriously?

Wait! I take that back! There was a rule about hashtags! Crap! @Ariel484 , you had the list of rules, right?

No notes to use. Just the pictures and the memories that stand out. For whatever reason there's holes here and there in my pictoral timeline. Oh well. Prob'ly better that way. ;)

Many of the girls said things like, "What happens on the girls' cruise stays on the girls' cruise." Um, yeah. No promises on whether or not what follows is strategically edited. Chances are it is. If you want to know what really happens on the unOfficial WDWMagic Girls Cruise you'll just have to book yourself a stateroom on the next one. Needless to say, 27 ladies + 1 cruise = a hellagood time.

Part 1 of 2. This was a 2-part runaway from home for me. I decided to do these recountings in 2 pieces then link them to each other accordingly. Part 1 contains the girls cruise experience. Part 2 contains the 20th anniversary escape for me & my Sweetness. Definitely 2 vastly different trips connected by time. You can see part 2 HERE.

Also, please forgive whatever crap I post for pictures. I got a new camera a few days before I left home. I played a lot with my shots and have been experimenting heavily with editing. Oftentimes you'll see pictures taken only seconds apart that look very different. That's because in editing I'm still playing with a range of settings to find what my mind's eye enjoys. K?

With that, lets get this thing rolling!
 
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Tiggerfanatic

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Great report, @sweetpee_1993! Made it all come alive for me all over again! I cannot WAIT for the next Girls Cruise.

Hubby is leaving tomorrow for Daytona for Bike-tober Fest and will be gone for a week (Yay a mini vacation for me!)
I promise I will work on my trip report this weekend. I didn't take as many pictures as I thought but I've got a few!
 
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DisSplash

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Sweetpea -- I was so happy to find your trip report as I read your last trip report from your cruise in May and was hooked! You definitely can draw a reader in .... Sorry about what happened to you at Remy. That is simply plain awful and massively humiliating. What I want to know is where in the world do they even give people advance notice of the exact type of footwear (dress heel) that is required? I have recently booked our family's first Disney cruise (a 4-night day in January) and while I have seen a lot of things written about the type of clothing for various restaurants, they never were so detailed as to indicate the exact type of dress heel a woman could wear (unless I just missed it). Dress heels are not flip flops by any stretch of the imagination. I was just incensed - on your behalf - by what I felt was a complete lack of advance notice to you of this uber-specific requirement, and then the disparate way in which it was enforced. My husband and I are not foodies by any means, and so we did not have any plans to try to get into Remy, and I am now very thankful for that. But I was also very happy to hear that DisneyFalcon had your back and made sure they knew that they messed us. So not cool.
I also wanted to ask you about that Chocolate Factory thing -- that sounded like something my kids (10 and 7) might actually enjoy doing, especially since the balmy . When are you going to do that tour? Will you posting about that experience prior to January? I am trying to get an idea about whether or not it is an experience really worth seeking out. Any feedback
 

Disneyfalcon

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Sweetpea -- I was so happy to find your trip report as I read your last trip report from your cruise in May and was hooked! You definitely can draw a reader in .... Sorry about what happened to you at Remy. That is simply plain awful and massively humiliating. What I want to know is where in the world do they even give people advance notice of the exact type of footwear (dress heel) that is required? I have recently booked our family's first Disney cruise (a 4-night day in January) and while I have seen a lot of things written about the type of clothing for various restaurants, they never were so detailed as to indicate the exact type of dress heel a woman could wear (unless I just missed it). Dress heels are not flip flops by any stretch of the imagination. I was just incensed - on your behalf - by what I felt was a complete lack of advance notice to you of this uber-specific requirement, and then the disparate way in which it was enforced. My husband and I are not foodies by any means, and so we did not have any plans to try to get into Remy, and I am now very thankful for that. But I was also very happy to hear that DisneyFalcon had your back and made sure they knew that they messed us. So not cool.
I also wanted to ask you about that Chocolate Factory thing -- that sounded like something my kids (10 and 7) might actually enjoy doing, especially since the balmy . When are you going to do that tour? Will you posting about that experience prior to January? I am trying to get an idea about whether or not it is an experience really worth seeking out. Any feedback

DisSplash, Disneycruise.com has the dress codes. They're very specific. It says no flip flops, and interestingly enough, it now says no sandals also. I honestly can't say when they changed it but they definitely changed it as evidenced by the fact that it's not updated on one of the pages. If you google you'll also find several blogs that reference no flip-flops but none that say sandals. Missy said she thinks it had changed before we left though because she checked it and brought heels because of the rule.

So if you decide to try Palo or Remy, check Disneycruise.com! :)
 

sweetpee_1993

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DisSplash, Disneycruise.com has the dress codes. They're very specific. It says no flip flops, and interestingly enough, it now says no sandals also. I honestly can't say when they changed it but they definitely changed it as evidenced by the fact that it's not updated on one of the pages. If you google you'll also find several blogs that reference no flip-flops but none that say sandals. Missy said she thinks it had changed before we left though because she checked it and brought heels because of the rule.

So if you decide to try Palo or Remy, check Disneycruise.com! :)
Definitely changed in the last year. Never assume because you've been there before that you know. ;)
 
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sweetpee_1993

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Great report, @sweetpee_1993! Made it all come alive for me all over again! I cannot WAIT for the next Girls Cruise.

Hubby is leaving tomorrow for Daytona for Bike-tober Fest and will be gone for a week (Yay a mini vacation for me!)
I promise I will work on my trip report this weekend. I didn't take as many pictures as I thought but I've got a few!

Doing this little mini-report really brought it all back for me, too. I can't wait for the next one, as well!

Oooooh...I know those mini-vaca's! It's been an eternity since the guys hauled off to the lake for a fishing/camping weekend. I like being home just me & my little dog. It IS a mini-vaca!

I don't think anyone took as many pics as they intended to. Like Tammy said, when you see so many people taking a bazillion pics you just don't do it but then it ends up that everyone took too few. Maybe we'll have to work on that next go around. And if we don't get it right next time we'll have to do it again. We could really work this in our favor, huh? LOL!


Sweetpea -- I was so happy to find your trip report as I read your last trip report from your cruise in May and was hooked! You definitely can draw a reader in .... Sorry about what happened to you at Remy. That is simply plain awful and massively humiliating. What I want to know is where in the world do they even give people advance notice of the exact type of footwear (dress heel) that is required? I have recently booked our family's first Disney cruise (a 4-night day in January) and while I have seen a lot of things written about the type of clothing for various restaurants, they never were so detailed as to indicate the exact type of dress heel a woman could wear (unless I just missed it). Dress heels are not flip flops by any stretch of the imagination. I was just incensed - on your behalf - by what I felt was a complete lack of advance notice to you of this uber-specific requirement, and then the disparate way in which it was enforced. My husband and I are not foodies by any means, and so we did not have any plans to try to get into Remy, and I am now very thankful for that. But I was also very happy to hear that DisneyFalcon had your back and made sure they knew that they messed us. So not cool.
I also wanted to ask you about that Chocolate Factory thing -- that sounded like something my kids (10 and 7) might actually enjoy doing, especially since the balmy . When are you going to do that tour? Will you posting about that experience prior to January? I am trying to get an idea about whether or not it is an experience really worth seeking out. Any feedback
would be greatly appreciated! Gah! I am such a dork. I don't know how I messed up that post ....

Eh, the thing at Remy was just dumb. I try not to even think about it anymore. No sense in it. I knew going in that Remy had a dress code and I'd been there before (last September). Like Tammy said, it's on the website. I went this year thinking I knew the dress code because I'd already been once. I was more focused on my dress, really. It was a new Lilly dress that I was in looooove with. I guess just because you're wearing an expensive dress (originally $278 but I got it for like $69 :happy: ) doesn't mean it's an automatic okay. Duh! The sandals were pretty neutral, I thought. You could dress them up or down. I thought the outfit was resort nice. Some people go in wearing like cocktail dresses or I've even seen floor length sequined deals. To me, those come off like people wanting to make it more than it is. Definitely think it's just me on that, tho. I put it in context: it's a nice restaurant on a Disney ship. People are on vacation. It's a Bahamas cruise. Most likely you've just spent an entire day in your skivvies in the sun, possibly wearing your breezy cover-up, or in shorts running around. A solid "resort nice" is now, in the context of the vacation, "dressed up". To me. I'll be clear. That's me. But then, I'm not at all amused with the notion of formal nights either. In fact, I hate them. After having tried it out and hated it, we simply don't participate anymore. Even dressing cruise casual (sundress for me, khakis and polo for him) has become enough annoyance that you'll see a biiiiiig difference in how we handled dinners in the next part of my trip. Again, I totally accept that this is mostly just us. We don't dress up for anything aside from weddings or funerals. We're not accustomed to wearing the nice clothes so it's uncomfortable for us to do so. Plus, it feels economically STUPID to spend so much money buying up the nice clothes to wear them for 2 hours out of a day then peel 'em off. We only wear the stuff for dinners on cruises. Not as big a deal when just Tracey & I cruise because we aren't growing anymore. When our boys cruise with us it's a killer. I've taken them on 2 cruises this year. We're going on another next month. Each. and. EVERY cruise, count 3, I've had to spend between $100 - $200 on EACH of them for new dress clothes/shoes because they outgrow stuff so dang fast. That's $600+ on useless clothing that they wear for a couple hours a night for a week then they get lost in the back of the closets until they outgrow them. Right now, with teenagers, that happens in a flash. I can think of a lot better things to do with $600+. Eh, but I've rambled off-subject. I knew there was a dress code going into Remy. I did NOT know it had been modified. It's a non-issue now. I won't go back. I don't say that necessarily because of the 1 bad experience I had. I had a great experience the first time. It's simply that I personally enjoy meals more when I'm physically comfortable. The dress level isn't physically comfortable to me. Additionally, sitting for 3-4 hours for a meal isn't my cup of tea either. Again, I can think of much more enjoyable things to do with 3-4 hours in comfort. :cool:

We're sailing on Royal Caribbean's Allure of the Seas for Thanksgiving week. One of our port stops on their Eastern (not Disney's!) is Nassau. Problem is, the day we're there the number of cruise ships due in port that day will deposit somewhere around 18k-20k people on-island. That's a LOT. Plus, it's a holiday week so Atlantis is going to be busier. I'm not even trying to spend the big bucks to go over there. Disney offers the chocolate factory thing at Graycliff as an excursion, Royal Carib does not. I'm going to try to go over there on my own to check it out. So, IF I get to do it it'll be Thanksgiving week next month. I've also found a rum distillery AND a rum cake factory I want to check out. I'm still researching the best way to handle transportation because the rum cake factory is in one direction while the distillery and Graycliff are in another. I'll figure it out. May have to save the rum cake factory for another trip. :(
 

Disney_Belle

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Loved, loved, loved this report! And your pictures are great!

I'm so glad you broke out of the blues and enjoyed the rest of your trip. It's okay to break away once in a while be out on your own. I've left my better half a couple of times for solo trips to WDW and I always hit that "wall" at some point where I miss him, I miss my dogs, I feel guilty, I want to go home and I'm just done. Even at my most favorite place in the world. But then I (as you did) divert my attention to something else and realize how unbelievably silly I'm being. I start thinking of how lucky I am to have a hubby and a life where I CAN do these things (and I tally all the Saturdays he spends out with his buddies at the range and I realize we're even haha!) Glad you had a great time overall, though.

Now I need to read part 2!
 

sweetpee_1993

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Loved, loved, loved this report! And your pictures are great!

I'm so glad you broke out of the blues and enjoyed the rest of your trip. It's okay to break away once in a while be out on your own. I've left my better half a couple of times for solo trips to WDW and I always hit that "wall" at some point where I miss him, I miss my dogs, I feel guilty, I want to go home and I'm just done. Even at my most favorite place in the world. But then I (as you did) divert my attention to something else and realize how unbelievably silly I'm being. I start thinking of how lucky I am to have a hubby and a life where I CAN do these things (and I tally all the Saturdays he spends out with his buddies at the range and I realize we're even haha!) Glad you had a great time overall, though.

Now I need to read part 2!

Thank you!

I'm glad I broke free of the blues, too. Hopefully with more practice escaping I'll get better. Right???


Awesome report! It looked like such a fun group of ladies. :)

Absolutely gorgeous pictures of well, everything!

Thank you! It was a fabulous group of ladies!


Great pics! Looked like you had a great time!

Thanks! I think everyone found a great time during our all-girls getaway!


Great report Kelly!! Sooooo glad you joined in the cabanafunfest and turned your frown upside down! I absolutely loved that day--absolutely my favorite of the cruise, and you were a big part of that!

Thanks, Courney! The cabanafunfest was such an awesome time. Castaway alsmost always ends up being the best day of all. Thank YOU for such a no-holds-barred, let-go day! I think if any one of the girls in that cabana had been absent it wouldn't have been quite as cool. :cool: Goal for next cruise is to let go a little more often and be in the moment like the cabanafunfest. :p
 

Bam Bam

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OMG!!! My husband set off the alarm that closed a door on our cruise on the Fantasy! It was in the section were all the adult bars where. I had went into the bathroom that has the round stalls and the next thing I know this alarm is going off. I thought, great the ship is sinking and I'm on the potty!!! When I came out there were two maintance workers there trying to open the door that closed off the hallway. I look over and my husband was all trying to hide! He said he saw the button that looked like the button to the lights in our room, so he hit it to see which lights it worked...it set off the alarm and closed the door! It was so funny, he is like a kid and has to touch everything!!
 
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PolynesianPrincess

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Just got around to reading this!! LOVE it!!! And you need to give yourself more credit, lady! You absolutey did do so much for this group regarding this trip. You answered so many questions and made so many great suggestions. You were the mastermind behind this with @Disneyfalcon so without you two, this never would have come to fruitation!

As I told y'all before, I was very skeptical going into this. I didn't think it was even remotely possible for me to love anything more than WDW. I feared that even though it was a DISNEY cruise, the Disney feeling wouldn't be there. My fear that it wouldn't be Disney was just that.. a fear. The magic of Disney was there, all around you. I never once felt like I was on a non-Disney ship. I can happily say that while WDW will always hold the number 1 spot in my heart, cruising has definitely jumped up to a quick second. It was such an adventure. We rebooked for next November the second we realized how much we love cruising. While we do know cruising with Mickey is a bit pricier than other cruise lines (my BFF is on a cruise right now on Carnival, 8 nights, Eastern Caribbean and she paid a little over what we paid for the 4 nighter) I don't think we will ever stop going on DCL. We might try out other ships here and there, especially if they stop in ports that DCL doesn't.

I will say that this trip was easily top 3 WDW trips I have ever taken. While it's true we are all bonded by our love for things Disney, getting to know all the girls on the ship a little bit more, I learned there are lots of other things we have in common as well. I couldn't have asked for a better group of girls to take this trip with. You ladies are all awesome and I can't wait until the next cruise!
 

5thGenTexan

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Just read through today during lunch. Halfway through I thought about emailing my daughters principal regarding her opinion on taking Kindergarteners out of school for cruises. :)
 

Kristia

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Haven't quite finished yet, but it looks like you guys had a great time! Love all your photos! I am so sorry for your Remy experience. I am so uncomfortable in fancy restaurants and that probably would have killed me. Ugh. Wish I could have gone with you guys. Maybe one of these years. I don't get to take many vacations during the year so I would find it hard to leave and go somewhere so nice and not take the hubby with me. We loved the cruise so much he would probably kill me if I went without him! :p Oh...and DON'T do the Jager!!! You think Jose was the devil.....
 

Tiggerfanatic

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Doing this little mini-report really brought it all back for me, too. I can't wait for the next one, as well!

Oooooh...I know those mini-vaca's! It's been an eternity since the guys hauled off to the lake for a fishing/camping weekend. I like being home just me & my little dog. It IS a mini-vaca!
Just had to chime in on my "mini-vacation" (hubby got back from Florida this morning.)
He was gone for 9 days. During that 9 days, I mowed the yard twice, a job that takes 3 hours minimum. I had 16 horses and 7 cows to feed, and 5 stalls to muck, every day. I had to place an order for feed, so there was a ton of oats in 50# bags that needed unloaded and put away. We've got 2 dogs, one of which is 10 months old and I'm thinking of getting him fitted for a saddle, and 2 cats. All this AFTER getting home from my full time job. So when someone asks me, how can you go away for a week without him? My reply, just as easy as he can go away without me. I miss him, and I hope he misses me, but I don't feel one teeny little bit of guilt!
 

popsicletrees

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Kelly, thank you for posting this report! I was absolutely craving to go after I started seeing so many photos pop up on Instagram from you ladies. I'm glad that so many of you are letting me live vicariously through your cruise experiences! :D

Your photo editing looked so good. I'm so scared to shoot in RAW, but I did put Lightroom on my Christmas list. So we'll see!

I'm really hoping for another ladies' only cruise in the future, and I'm really hoping that I can join. Even though I didn't go, seriously thank you for all the work you did put into it. It is such a great idea!
 

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