Dizneykid
Active Member
I'm not going to go back and look for the specific posts, but someone had commented on the increased number of obituaries in their local papers.
I checked out today's obituaries, and yes, there are 2 - 3 pages. There are always more obituaries printed on Saturday and Sunday, because many people only get weekend editions, and they are more likely to take the time to read the whole paper on the weekend. We are also enetering a time where the old-fashioned wake for 2 days and bury on the 3rd custom is less popular. People were having more private, family only burials/cremations followed by a Memorial Service at a later date even before Covid hit. That's what I did when my parents died, and I had their obituaries in the 2 Sundays preceeding their memorial service - not in the daily paper.
So today's Sunday paper had more obituaries than usual - but only a handful of deaths were from the past week. There is a slight increase in the total number of deaths. Most were for people who had died anywhere from a month ago to over a week ago. There is no rush to announce a death if no one can attend a funeral, but people still wanted to let the public know that someone had passed.
So the trend has been to wait until the day when as many people as possible will read an obituary, which has been accelerated by the pandemic, as people who would have had a funeral/memorial service closer to the death no longer can do so. Most of them have stated that some sort of gathering will happen sometime "when conditions allow."
Not related to your comments but more funerals in general. My local newspaper was putting obituaries for everyone that ever died on their facebook feed. They got reprimanded for it because nearly none of them were covid related but it caused so much panic. They had never put obituaries on facebook before covid. They stopped doing it since the reprimand. This is why I'm careful about sources and how much news I consume per day.