You're absolutely right, the 4 seasons will absolutely clobber the Disney hotels in terms of amenities and luxury. In fact they are in a completely different category. AAA's diamond systems which is comparable to the star rating systems out there, will never allow a Disney property to have 5 diamond classification. They just are not built for it, they need to have competitive golf courses as part of the actual hotel premises (not wider resort area), they need to have varied restaurant styles, at least one with a la carte pricing/service, they need to have personalized welcoming, gifts in the room upon arrival, fresh flowers daily in the room, turndown service, concierges that know your name and particular interests, etc. Arguably, not the type of service that Disney should be focusing on. That sort of hotel isn't one that is A: affordable and B: attracts theme park goers. Disney's luxury brand hotels are what they are because they cater to families that are most likely there to attend theme parks. I won't even begin to entertain the discussion that hotel stays don't have an impact on theme park attendance.
In terms of this general discussion:
Yes, attendance is down. THANK GOD. Neither the parks nor the resorts can sustain that kind of crowd level on an extended basis. We all decry the state of the maintenance. However, it's no mystery, the company can't take rides down for refurb, paint, and "general upkeep" when they need the capacity in order to maintain fire code. Now I will say, being an AP, living a whopping 12 miles to the turnstiles of the magic kingdom, and spending 2 nights a week in the parks, crowds are not dying at nearly the death-knell that is being reported on here. I've still seen hour long waits for the PeopleMover on a Saturday. Yes, thats right, the PeopleMover. With friends who work in coporate and P&R management, they will easily talk my ear off about the focus on going back to rack room rates (meaning non-discounted), and maximizing revenue per guest. In other words, they want less people and more money.... for now.
This plays into the expansions currently happening. The company is brutally aware maintaining that kind of crowd level and closing half a park won't fly. Sure it's only one park but the armchair imagineers here forget how acutely the parks are connected for a vacation family. Disney is relying on the other parks to take some of the pressure off MK. Without them keeping a crowd all day, they rush to MK after a certain point and things get messy. We can all agree that the cuts that came from shanghai are absolutely abysmal and need corrected. Thankfully with the end of the fiscal year right around the corner we should be seeing things improving.