The more telling thing we've seen at the condo though is when discussing WDW with fellow snow birds at the complex, the vast majority of them do not bring their visiting children and grandchildren to WDW either, even though it's a mere 10 - 15 minute drive from there.
FWIW, I've never met anyone originally from the Orlando, or even Central Florida, area who says anything more about WDW then "meh" at best.
Except for college, I've never lived more than 3 miles from the Ocean, so I somewhat understand that - if you've never seen or spent time near the ocean before, it's amazing. But since I grew up with it I have to remind myself to appreciate it and but still even now go "People spend as much or more to come here when they could go to Disney World? Or New York City?" sometimes.
Since Disney has such a large employee base, most of the folks I've spoken to over the years from the area know someone who works there, and were content with going to one park one day every few years, if they cared to go at all. I used to be shocked by this, but I've heard it so many times now that I expect it.
Or just the fact that there are plain MORE people.
But...there aren't. Not per-park. It's up since the travel crisis caused by 9/11, but just now returning to classic height. But it feels more crowded than ever because Disney has so artificially manipulated things in the name of getting you to spend more on crap you don't need. It's also changed the atmosphere considerably, since everyone is rushing around trying to get to this reservation or to ride that ride before it closes (since the parks close so ridiculously early now during most of the year).
That's something that just happened in such a slow creep that you don't often hear about it as significant, but the MK in particular simply is open quite a few hours per day less than it once was. Parks closing at 7PM, 8PM, maybe 9PM if you are lucky, on a regular basis? That's insane. And gives another reason it's so crowded - those admissions used to be spread across more hours and more "people eating" attractions.
I'd guess that's specifically significant at Epcot - Epcot used to feel a lot more open and airy, and felt uncrowded even on busy days, because people were busy on the lengthy, continuously loading attractions, or spending time in all of the exhibits and such where you could easily spend an hour exploring an "after show" that now we rush past because they either don't do anything, aren't compelling, or simply don't exist anymore. It used to be that you literally could not complete Epcot in a day - these days, you really can.
As Martin said earlier, the goal was to get you to spend LESS time in attractions, and that's exactly what they did and why it feels significantly more crowded than ever.