While I can understand your feelings that should also mean that you would not want to take the monorail to the MK which goes right through the GF and from which you can see the beach. Additionally, you should stay off the ferry as well, because you can see the GF, unless you stay on the side facing the Contemporary.
It was a horrible and tragic accident, but you cant always avoid those locations. There is a spot on a road I have to drive every day where a teenager lost control of his car and ran it into a tree killing himself and 2 girls. I saw the wreckage and the memorials that were there for weeks afterwards. I have children and can only imagine the grief that caused 6 parents, but me going out of my way to avoid that spot will not change what happened. I hope you can come to some sort of peace with what happened the next time you're at WDW.