Kidding aside, when we are at Disney World, we have fun. It's not torture. I don't force myself to see the state of decline. I force myself NOT to see it. I'm glad you and others like it as much as you do.
Honestly, you kind of rambled in the middle and you lost me more than once. If I'm following your argument, it seems to be that you love the Disney brand enough to overlook the resort's short-comings. Man, that's just drinking the Kool-aid. I'm not trying to be one of the cool kids or insensitive or holier-than-thou, but people who do that are not unsuckerlike. Just my $.02.
The "CEOs don't spend time on forums" or "we can't control it so why bother" arguments are weak. Why discuss anything at all if 1. Only CEOs have valid opinions and 2. Opinions only matter if you are in a position to make changes. So let's just retire those lines of thought.