RivieraJenn
Well-Known Member
Not a necessity but will increase the probability.
Being in organised sport teaches you that:
- You are only one of many.
- Sometimes sacrifice of personal goals for group success is more important.
- Life is not fair.
- How to deal with failure.
- Long term success is better than immediate gratification.
- Some things you suck at, so stop wasting your time.
Oh, I'm not arguing that sports can't or shouldn't be one tool used to impart life lessons. But there are other tools, some more suited to certain personalities than others. I fully understand and agree that sports programs can be a positive experience in many ways for many kids. But playing tee ball isn't necessarily going to ensure that the lessons you listed are internalized, and not being on a sports team does not automatically lessen a child's chances of learning those lessons. The comment I quoted specifically said that kids not playing sports was a big part of the (perceived) problem with Gen Y, which is an over-generalization at best and downright inaccurate at worst. I don't have stats on hand, but I'd say middle- and upper-class kids in the U.S. today are WAY more likely to be part of an organized sports team than at any point in history.
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