The reason why people get upset is because of the way these questions are posed. They don't appear to be simple questions, but rather ones with a rather judgmental and condescending tone to them. And let me be clear, your question did not upset me at all, but I can see why some people would get upset, especially with your critical background when it comes to WDW. Also, tone in type is nearly impossible to comprehend so I can see why people think your questions aren't simply just questions.
Nah, I think people get defensive and start taking things personally and act like I am talking about them. I don't generally discuss individuals here unless there is cause. ... My questions may be critical, but judgmental or condescending? Um ... I don't know how one gets that out of a question unless one wants to get that.
Of course it's people that make the memories, but your particular chosen location is just as important. And of course nostalgia is also a big part of the draw to WDW. I remember going as a 5 year old child with my parents and how much I loved it, which translates into why I love going as an adult. How is a WDW vacation any different than going snow skiing, hiking in the Ozarks, etc.? It isn't. But, I also have emotional attachments to those locations as well because I have fond childhood memories of going with my family to. So guess what, I take vacations there as well. Your childhood memories, especially the good ones, will no doubt influence your choice of vacation destinations. WDW is no different.
Sure. But I went to many places as a child and had many great vacations, yet some of those places I have never been back to. Others I have ... but I am not afraid to expand my horizons and see what else is out there. Some WDW chronics absolutely are afraid to go anywhere else ... even the thought of DL scares the pooh out of them because it is located in crazy anything-goes (in their minds) SoCal.
Again, it's as if you're agreeing with yourself on these points. WDW is a vacation destination like all of the places you listed. If you and your family had a great time at any of these locations, wouldn't that influence your choice in the following years? Of course it would, just like any normal family.
It would be weird and a bit unhinged if I did not agree with myself, doncha think? Oh, and my family is most definitely not normal and I am quite happy about that!
I don't think it turns anyone into anything that they aren't, but it surely does help bring forth the inner child in some people. It's not just WDW for me though, I get giddy every time I take any vacation. But for WDW, the nostalgia part of it definitely comes through when I think back on my childhood trips with my mom and dad. There's no doubt an emotional attachment to the place.
No doubt. And that differs from person to person. Some people go back because they have had good times and enjoy the place, others go because they are addicted to a BRAND and marketing. Then there are those who go because they feel it's something you have to do once etc ...
There's no doubt that becoming more cultured by exploring places in America and other countries is something people should do. I love history so I enjoy Charleston, Savannah, Philadelphia, etc. and go to these historical cities every chance I get. However, I don't bemoan and get upset because someone chooses to stay within their safety net at WDW. It's ultimately their loss and their money. I've always looked at WDW as a safe place, free of the outside world. I don't turn a tv on, and basically get lost in my own world while there. WDW has changed for the worst in that area, which has caused me to cut back on my trips (I haven't been since 2010). I no longer feel that disconnect from the outside world like I used to.
Safe place? As safe as any city of its size that is a terrorist target could be and has a very poor population and lots of crime, sure. ... Free of the outside world? Nope. That is a line I won't yet people get away with using because as long as you visit with tens of thousands of others daily, you are experiencing the real world. The good, the bad and the ugly. ... I get how people back in the sleepy 70s and 80s could feel disconnected from the world at WDW. But now? With smart phones, the 'net and social media joining the throngs of humanity? Nah, don't see that.
And for the record, you can read through my posts here and see that I'm every bit as critical and concerned about the future of WDW as you and other posters here. Again, I think people got upset with your question simply because they associated it with your previous posts here. It's hard to fault them for that. After all, you are the "spirited" one.
I think people need to relax a bit and not take everything as an attack on their right to share the earth as a life form. Otherwise, they may be in for a long, very hot summer if I can't find a proper Faux Top One Percent Spirited Summer Holiday!
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