Funny, I thought you were relaying what others thought, not what you thought. Besides, even if I did think you were talking for yourself, I fail to see how it was rude to express something that obvious. It really doesn't matter what the "link" says the whole idea and attitude that a female needs to be gay to be strong, is totally rude and incorrect. All a woman needs to be strong is strength of character not an association with a group or lifestyle. And the idea that her character is solely a manifestation of a particular lifestyle is offensive.
If what you're saying is that you are just a messenger, then I can understand that you are just explaining what others might think which is the way I read it. I was commenting on another social condition that just when we think we have overcome it as a society, it shows up again.