Californian Elitist
Well-Known Member
Thank you SO MUCH for pointing this out. I wanted to mention this, but I didn’t have the energy for it.Chris did a documentary many years ago about black women and hair that included his own daughter. It delved into insecurities about hair that black women go through, and even touched on experiences of black women with shaving and alopecia.
So that being said, while for the first joke he may have not been fully aware of the sexism, which I’m also not okay with (joke that if Penelope lost, Javier would lose no matter what, because you know women are immature jealous people that you would not hear the end of from, if you won. Or as the children’s movie meet the robinsons says it: “remember Lewis, she’s always right even when she’s wrong”)
The second joke I feel was more insidious, as Chris is 100 percent aware about black women’s insecurity struggles of their hair, and even if he didn’t put together that she had alopecia, he knows it’s a thing, and he knows baldness is a source of insecurity with black women. So I have to conclude that this second joke actually had intent of hurting/attacking someone, not just a topic he was ignorant about, but something he knows how to use against someone.
Thank you.