Kids do have their own minds, and tastes. My daughter at 4 was willing to try some of everything and for the most part still does. There are things she knows she doesn't like at 6. My son at 4 is less willing to try new foods, no way he would eat his way around F&W trying a little of everything. Both have been raised the same way. My son also likes the drama of pretending he doesn't like things. He will sit and whine and complain and then once everyone else is done eating and we have been actively ignoring him suddenly he tries it and it's wonderful and he eats all his dinner. When we go to restaurants. I let them get whatever they want. It's not worth the drama. My daughter is a more adventurous eater, my son only wants chicken nuggets, pizza, french fries, plain noodles,that kind of thing. I figure we are out and it's a treat.