Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that exactly what you got upset with Gabe for doing when you asked another member about the sports? In fact, I'm pretty sure that your words were something to the effect of "No one asked for your opinion". You didn't like that she responded to something you posted to someone else, (in a public thread, I might add) when she wasn't involved in that discussion. And now you are doing the EXACT same thing. And notice who HASN'T said anything in response to YOUR rant OR other members'? So who is it who is stirring the pot? I didn't take sides, just posted a reminder that we needed to be respectful of one another and play nice...I didn't get involved in the argument, but you couldn't let it calm down, you had to make sure everyone knows just how horrible of a person you think she is. And yes, it IS bullying. One person called her "dense", you said "That's just the kind of person you are" after making obvious little quips insulting her character. On a public forum, for everyone to see....embarrassing her publicly and trying to put people against her..that IS bullying.