Tony the Tigger
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That hits right at home describing my mother. She was such a queen bee and tried to make me her BFF. I was at first because I didn't know any better, but it wasn't until my classmates befriended me that I realized my own mother was my bully. This is one of many reasons I am no contact with her today. It totally sucks, but she is so stuck in time in the past that I don't recognize her anymore.
Mine’s kind of nuts. Kept my Dad away after the divorce (age 4) but then called him to “talk some sense into me” when my honor roll nerd self was “out of control.” (Age 17.)
The result of that meeting was him telling me I wasn’t messed up; I was in a messed up house. He offered to take me in. Before I had a chance to even consider, she threw me out for entertaining considering it at all.
Adding: “You have one hour to pack whatever you paid for and get out - in garbage bags because that’s what you are.”
Good times.
But, a lifetime ago. What doesn’t kill you...