Gabe1
Ivory Tower Squabble EST 2011. WINDMILL SURVIVOR
I went back and forth with my DD years ago. I knew she could more than handle the education as she was years ahead of grade level. I had her IQ tested at Northwestern University. I ultimately decided to go with the flow and leave her where she placed by birthdate. She missed the cutoff also.I’m curious about kindergarten around the country, is it as strict other places? It’s so strange that in today’s world June, July, August is considered a “late” birthday with most kids starting a year later...and September being almost unheard of now.
A’s bday is the last day of September, my sister had to have a few meeting with her future school to even allow her to be tested for K... luckily they allowed it, but stressed to my sister & bro in law “She’ll be the youngest, we don’t recommend that..blah blah blah”. She’s ready, she’ll be fine academically, socially, and will have no problem playing ‘up’ in age group in sports (to be able to play with classmates). It really bothers me that a school would try to talk a family out of that, prior to testing. This is a private school, not public, which is a little more disappointing imo. All’s well that end well I guess... just curious if this is regional or national issue...at public as well.
My decision was not for her immediate needs but Long run. Last kid to go into Drivers Ed. Last kid to go to pool without Mom being with her and friends. Last kid to be able to work. Plus all the other things kids have with minimum age requirements beyond sports. The deciding factor was future in college and the modern legal woes of sending a minor away to college with all that goes with that and RAs being responsible for their whereabouts and local curfew laws which also apply to teens.
It wasn’t ultimately about going to Elementary school early but the constant you are to young to....all the other stuff.