Other chit chatters may want to skip ahead this is a recap update for
@Gabe1 about my inlaws.
Yeah it's buried back there....long story short. The ankle is healing on schedule but not on Brad's schedule. So he can only put 25% weight down and is working his way each week up to 100% so on Tuesday he can start with 50%. No driving still. Dr said that if he took the boot off to drive and got into an accident, even if it wasn't hub's fault because he isn't medically able to drive he would be 100% liable. Not something we are going to risk.
So no Chicago this year. When hubs finalized the news to his family. The one brother-in-law (the one who always becomes the spokesperson when his wife is mad) sent many texts trying to convince hubs to talk me into driving and then he was trying to find us flights. He even told hubs that if we flew we wouldn't have to stay in a hotel and we could have one of the full sized beds upstairs. Hello, hubs has trouble going up stairs and the stairs to their bedrooms are very steep and slippery (I've almost fallen a couple times).
Hubs finally just said it didn't work and we would not be down. Since then it has been silence from his sisters and the brothers-in-law. The eldest niece even got into a pretty bad accident (she was able to walk away without injury to herself) and after hubs and I both saw the post on Facebook we expressed relief that she was okay. Hubs even texted his sister and the niece. Only the niece sent responses and had a conversation with Brad. So they are going to be holding a grudge and be petty about it. Their problem I guess. I'm sure they will bring it up the next time we see them, and I may or may not hold back my thoughts.