I understand about trying to keep traditions up but also have learned new traditions are equally as memorable while still loving the memories of days gone bye.
I've never ordered Turkey at a restaurant for Thanksgiving. The first year we went out to dinner I was prego for the first time and about 2 months along. Meats did not sit well with me at all.
So I had this wondrous lasagna. And so it began. We moved on over the years to high end steakhouses and have now landed on Harry Caray's for the last 8 years as they have that awesome 24 sides/all you can eat you just order the meat on alacarte. Mine is all accompanied by a few lovely glasses of Riesling. We flop between Ribeye, huge filets and my Mom always eats the Prime Rib.
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@MinnieM123 you will appreciate this....my Mom is so much like your Mom was...she'll always pick out the Prime Rib (which none of us really care for over steak) and try to convenience us that we should order it too, we have the same head banging conversation every year-just like you and your Mom with Sweet Potatoes.