Stay Calm?

I DO understand what my Dad is going through, always have if you've read my posts. I am there for him constantly advocating for him, feeding him, sitting him up and laying him down. It is over a two hour round trip for me to just to drive. It is tiring and very stressful, been doing this since February. Yes his being incapacitated has dramatically altered his life, my life and my families, that's a fact but that is what family does for each other.
What I offered in my post to
@Cesar R M was friendship and support as he too has stepped up to the plate to deal with a family member. I said to him
"Oh Dear I am sorry. If it is any comfort I am living the same life right now. It is so difficult to see the ones we love decline. I'm here for you as we walk this road." I never indicated it was a PICNIC for his grandma or my father. You called me out specifically in this post and quoted my empathy post to Cesar with:
"It's no picnic for the one that's declining either. Just sayin." was so unnecessary given what I said to Cesar and yes I take offense being poked at when it comes to family and health. To follow that up with Gabe Stay Calm, who says things like that under the circumstances? I'm sorry or I apologize would have been more appropriate.
We have all offered you support and good thoughts as you too have struggled with your health and more support as you too struggled with your daughters Moms health. We were all sincere. I too have received many very nice posts of encouragement from our thread for my Dad, me and my family. I genuinely appreciate kind words. After having said something inappropriate to me following it up with Gabe, stay calm was just uncalled for.