I so hope all works out for your family. I was able to spend last days with Mom and Dad. Was with Dad when he passed. Mom passed the day after we spent time with her, and getting her an ice cream sundae. Her favorite dessert. I was able to tell them both good by and that I love them so much. This will sound strange to people who don't know me. I live in the Denver area, and I got a "message" on three occasions to go "home", That's Indiana. The first time, my brother died at 45 from heart disease. I was able to see him before he died. My dad, I was at his bedside when he died, and then my Mom, before she died. I was so blessed to spend the last few hours with them, I will be forever happy for these experiences. My family has never understood this, but I really listen to this little "voice". I wish for a special time with your dad.