That is OK if you know how to fly a plane or helicopter. If you don't you have to rely on the pilot to make that decision. If memory serves, the pilot is the only one that has the final decision in that case. If the pilot feels that he has done this before and that all will be OK, then we will tend to trust the judgment of those with the the absolute knowledge of how certain conditions will be a high level of risk. I guess we have to assume that the Pilot doesn't have a death wish, but the person that had the final decision, regardless of pressure placed on them by others. If he decides that it is to dangerous then that freaking aircraft will not be leaving the ground. In this case, Kobi's expertise is Basketball, not flying. I'm sure he might have been concerned, like I have been a few times when flying, but ultimately I had to depend on the opinion of the Pilot.
In this case, if one is going to point blame on anyone it has to be the last line of defense. If the Pilot that should know what is happening decided that it wasn't all that much of a problem then that decision was wrong. It wasn't necessarily criminal, but it was a very costly mistake, including to himself. Thinking that passengers have the skill level to determine the level of risk is bogus. Even in the case you pointed out. If the pilot decided that his job was worth the risk and bypassed his own judgment out of fear of losing his job then he made a decision that was much more costly then his job. He is in that plane too and is more likely to die then anyone else. Errors in judgment are made every single day. They didn't start out the day thinking.. 'you know today I think I'm going to make decisions that will kill us all'.