I'll tell you something. Fantasmic is the only time I'm ever "rushing." But when we try to be nice and let people in front of us, people are rude anyway. The day after Thanksgiving we were at MGM leaving the park. When it was almost our turn, we realized we wouldn't all fit in the tram WITH the wheelchair we had. So, I told my family that we should let the people in back of us go ahead and we just wait for the next tram. Well, the tram comes and I step aside and this man just yanked his wife and pushed us to get a seat on the tram. If he had chilled, he'd have given me a chance to say he can have my seat. But yeah, people are horrible when the park closes.
Another little anecdote is from Epcot that Saturday. We had staked out seats for the tree lighting. I had gotten up for one second to take a picture, and when I turned back around, someone was in my seat. I just stared at them and they didn't budge. My parents tried to offer me a seat, but it was too cramped. When the show started, everyone (duh) in front of us got up on top of those "benches" and my grandma (being in the wheelchair) couldn't see. My brother tried to ask people to move nicely, but again nothing. Oh well.
So I've been on both sides of it, but mostly on the side of the observer of the rude, obnoxious people. It doesn't matter though because I'm at WDW :lol: