For the Aid who works 12 hour shifts all the time without complaining - THANK YOU.
Everything you do is appreciated. When someone comes back from vomiting in the bathroom to find fresh sheets, they love you. They want to thank you, but you're gone - off doing something for someone else.
When they ask for room temperature pop because the cold stuff makes them sick and you bring not one, but two or three...with straws!...and they find them there, within reach, when they wake up...they love you. They want to thank you, but you're gone.
When they apologize for vomiting all over the bed and you tell them it happens every day and isn't even the worst thing that happened today, then distract them with a pleasant story about the male patient who keeps grabbing your butt when you turn him (not complaining, just chatting), they're so grateful.
When your patients say, "Thank you", they mean, "This is the some of the worst stuff I'll have to endure in my life. I am miserable here and I hate all of this and you've just shot a burst of Sunshine into my misery, for which I'll always be grateful. You can't know how much I appreciate it. God bless you."
The fact that you work 12 hour shifts with no lunch and no breaks and get paid eight or ten dollars an hour is a shame. That you do it without complaining is amazing.
Nurses and aids always say they don't take breaks because they can't. But you could. You don't, because you can't let yourselves sit and rest while someone else sits in their own vomit or whathaveyou.
It is unfortunate that the people who are most grateful are usually too sick or sleepy to thank you, so I thought I'd take this opportunity to do it for them.
Before I was a patient, I had no idea how much something as simple as fresh, new sheets could mean to someone, especially turned down, saving the effort of turning them down. When you're sick, every saved movement helps so much.
Thanks for the clean sheets, the warm pop I can reach and for being so nice about it all.
And thanks for doing your complaining where we can't hear it.