Mmmeredith said:
Dude, I'm not saying you said anything about the American language. I think we are having communication problems, here. What I'm trying to get across is that while some intend to be rude, some may be rude accidentally because of language and cultural differences. For instance, if I went to France, I would probably be smiling a lot (bad habit, I know). Where I live that is considered normal and friendly, but many French people may perceive me as mentally unstable, as many French people only smile if there's a good reason. Would I mean to appear mentally unstable? Absolutely not, but I would smile none the less because that is what is appropriate in my cultural context, and thusly what I am used to doing. I think we should give people the benefit of the doubt rather than guessing at their intentions.
OK, let's give people the benefit of the doubt.. Let's have people from foreign contries come here, spew their venom against Americans, and then we say OHH IT IS OK BECAUSE THEY ARE USED TO DOING THAT IN THEIR COUNTRY Do we have to accept that here?? Sorry, we don't.. Heck, I don't accept it from people who are from the USA..
The CMs specify to move down to the end of the row.. If someone from a brazilian tour group plops themself in the middle of the row, causing others to have to climb over them, then should we look at them and say OHH IT IS OK, YOU ARE BRAZILIAN AND YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND? Now, in comparison, if a group of teenage cheerleaders sat in the middle of the row, AMERICAN CHEERLEADERS, and people had to climb over them, everyone would be annoyed and saying they should know better, and calling them rude teenagers..
And on another note: If someone from another culture is used to tossing garbage on the street, because it is a pratice that is accepted where they come from, should we be OK with them for throwing their trash on the ground when visiting here?
Ok, this has gotten way off topic...
To end this post: just because there is a cultural difference doesn't cut them slack.. Maybe you feel that way, but I sure as heck don't... So, I guess we will agree to disagree on this matter....