You mean you're not going to wear "The Boot?"It's a small wedding at the chapel at a camp where they both worked. I'm waiting to hear from her about how formal she wants it to be, but the dress was a great deal on line, so I ordered it anyway. I suspect it will be OK with her, but if not, I can use it for other occasions anyway. I hate dress shopping in the stores, so this was really just a stroke of luck. Shoes are going to be an issue, but I'll figure out something.