I get all that. But, while something not being true about me or someone else doesn't make it not true of everyone, the fact that something is true of you doesn't make it more likely to be true of others than what is true for me. We are all different, and making assumptions about people and their spending habits based on overeating is far from scientific. My husband still eats almost as much as most athletes, even after having weight loss surgery, so by some definitions, he could be thought of as overeating... but he also lifts weights and stays fit, so just the fact that he eats a lot doesn't guarantee that his clothing from a year ago won't fit. Heck, I'm 5'2" and weigh 130, and by some definitions I overeat as well, because I have to eat several times a day since my stomach doesn't hold much food. So even though I'm not eating a lot, I'm still eating frequently, which can mean a good bit of spending on food in parks if I'm not buying items that carry well as leftovers, and yet my clothing from last year all still fits. Likewise, there are other reasons why people gain weight besides overeating: metabolic problems, side effects from medications, etc etc etc. Furthermore, just because someone outgrew a Disney shirt doesn't mean they necessarily want another one. Like I said, lots of assumptions there.
As far as my reply, I was only trying to explain why your other post came across differently from the way you clearly intended it. I don't think anyone is going at this "hard" as you say... it's just part of the discussion at this point lol.