This has nothing to do with society being pc, and I have no clue why Christmas decorations got brought into this. It is about Disney making all of its rides shows and attraction appropriate for all ages.
Not every attraction needs to be appropriate for all ages. The fact that this attraction has existed for decades seems to be proof enough. Some rides have changed to be more politically correct, Pirates being an excellent example. But there are still scary thematic elements of Pirates, darkness, that mild plunge in the water. I'm sure children are frightened of that ride every single day, and yet they haven't made it happier. And there are other rides that also might be too horrific or otherwise scary for your child, IN WDW - Tower of Terror, Star Tours, It's Tough To Be a Bug, the various roller coasters, etc.
Nobody is offended about the hanging sequence or pitch black in the Mansion but if it terrifies my child there is something really wrong.
Does this mean if it doesn't frighten another child of an equal age, something is wrong with that child?
Someone mentioned the Splash hill and that is prime example of a age specific ride, as children under a certain age can not ride.
Not really. People of a certain height can not ride. I believe 40 inches is the cutoff point and that's more a safety issue for the big drop than a concern for a child's delicate sensibilities.
as a parent this is a real problem.
Why?
I am not against the entire haunted Mansion ride and never was. But that one dark scene could be changed to be more age appropriate for ALL children who want to enjoy the experience like everyone else.
What if they change it enough to stop frightening YOUR child, but it still frightens some other children. Is your child's sensibilities, and your opinion of what's appropriate for your child, the barometer for what is or isn't scary for everyone?
Disney is good with being inclusive for all people but lets not forget our core customer which is the families with small children who can frighten easy.
Which is why there are also plenty of other attractions and meet and greets and parades and character meals for people who go with small children, while also providing attractions and events for people with older children, and still other locations and experiences (from the Richard Petty Driving Experience to the multitude of lounged and bars on site) that cater to adults without children at all. If they made absolutely every square inch of the property little-kid-friendly, there would be a good many people who would never go back once their kids turned 10, and repeat business is a huge facet of their business model.
So look, I'm not trying to be mean. But you really didn't think through your argument. You want to vent about how Haunted Mansion scared your kid? You'll get a fair share of commiseration, people talking about things that scared their children, things that scared them when THEY were children, things that scare them NOW. Indeed, there are quite a few posts like that already.
But there is an egregious sense of entitlement in insisting that things must change to please you, when you have no proof that enough people think as you do to warrant changes (and around here, clearly, that proof does not exist).
Pirates changed because enough people complained about its misogynistic context that changes were deemed necessary. But people get that a Haunted Mansion is meant to be, to some degree, haunting. Scary, even. Maybe you'll find others who feel the same way you do, by all means, try to drum up support. But to join a forum and make your first post "Disney needs to change things you all like to make me happy?" A forum that's a: decidedly pro-Disney and b: not directly affiliated with Disney so your demands aren't even getting to people who could do anything about them even if they agreed with you? If that's your idea of "putting your best food forward," then, in a word, yikes.