But this isn’t how it would go down. It would be separate decisions. It would be a conversation between Mom & Dad, “Daughter is a good kid, takes care of younger siblings, puts up with being drug to everyone’s activities, helps Mom around the house and this is a once in a lifetime opportunity that would make her really happy, and she’ll remember forever as a time she was made a priority by her parents. Can we make this happen for her?”
Then sometime later, “What should we do for vacation? Because of the concert our budget is now this.” Birthday and Christmas presents for daughter would also likely be the concert.