There's definitely something to be said for the last part that when the experience is excellent you make more of an effort to make it work. When we went last summer, my husband was like are we really going to go again with a 1 year old, and on the trip he goes okay you're right this is amazing all of our girls 18, 4, and 1 at the time were having a blast. So it didn't take much convincing to get him to okay going this summer. But our trip was amazing partly due to the hours of time I spent planning it, which is fun for me. The cost is ridiculous, but we are pretty frugal and careful in other areas of our budget.