Micromanage is probably the wrong word, but
@LSLS pretty much hit the nail on the head.
Maybe the new structure of LL will help alleviate some of it, but the Genie+/LL setup had a lot to do with it. It still felt like it required a lot of preplanning/strategy, but without any sort of guarantee (i.e. 3 auto FP+ per day), which would make for a potentially strenuous/stressful day-of each and every day. Cards on the table, we didn't even elect into the Genie+ game, since we have two little girls and it wasn't worth the coin. However, that means that my wife an I haven't gotten to enjoy the attractions we love most, even with rider swap, since it would have meant standing in long lines (meaning one of us would have been absent for 1-2 hours from our kids at various times throughout the day). When the main reason we are going is for our kids (and to experience their joy), that was a non-starter.
Park operating hours are a shell of their former hours, so that adds extra stress for "fitting everything in", and we aren't even those kind of park goers. We are much more go-with-the-flow, or at least were during the FP+ era, but never felt like we missed out on much, since the longer hours provided more opportunity each and every day.
I'm more responsible for ordering/reserving my own transportation now, not to mention my luggage.
All of our favorite QS places are not pretty much online ordering only. Again, not really micromanaging, but just gives off a vibe that gives you an uneasy feeling when you factor in all of the others compiling.
So, yeah, maybe micromanaging was the wrong word. It is, however, no longer very relaxing and gives off a vibe that you must be constantly on your app and have your wallet open if you want all the "magic".
It's hard to explain, but our two trips since COVID have felt very regimented. We never got that feeling beforehand.