Just staring at my monitor, vainly hoping that I can offer some words of wisdom, but nothing's coming...I've been a one woman man for 14 years, far too long to remember what its like to date and not date, etc. This probably doesn't help much, but from reading your (Speck's) posts I've determined you have two things going for you a lot of guys don't - 1) a job and 2) a hella good sense of humor. I literally laughed out loud a couple of weeks ago when you acted like you didn't get the Madison Hotels reference only to throw out one of the greatest lines in cinematic history. I have no idea what that thread was about now, but I remember thinking - "that was fantastic on Speck's part."