I find it fascinating, if not downright amusing that you feel so personally offended by the fact that Disney didn't provide you with regular progress reports and keep you updated on the evolution of the attraction throughout it's development and construction. They have absolutely no obligation of any kind to do anything like that, and getting all angry because they didn't is your personal choice and not a result of anything Disney did wrong. They shared an early concept of what they were thinking to set the mood, the provided multiple updates along the final stages of construction including showing the new 'to Disney' ride system they were going to use along with the ride vehicles. Seems they just should have said they were building a popcorn stand and left it like that until it opened.You could have made up the whole thing then and been totally disappointed by all of it.
Bottom line, this is your issue, not anything Disney has done wrong.