Girlfriend Mad

Fantasmic

Fantasmic

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Laura said:
No one likes to be left out. No one likes to be away from the person they love for an extended amount of time. Given the fact that the OP used the term "holiday" implies that he's probably traveling from halfway around the world. That's a huge separation. The fact that she expressed her feelings doesn't make her some sort of evil psycho-maniac. It's probably going to be hard on her.
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When my OH and I had been going out for about 6 weeks, I went on holiday to Florida with my parents. We stayed in touch, I bought him a few souveniers and we're still together 7 years later. I bet he was sad he couldn't come and we missed each other. But he never once said to me DON'T GO!!! He never once made me feel like a bad person for going and enjoying myself!
 
bjlc57

bjlc57

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One.. My Wife, would have said.. GO:.. tell me about it when you get home..

and then make me pay for it in various ways..


two.. GO.. and DO NOT Call her each night to have her choke the fun out of you with guilt..


three.. what's the worst that could happen? a broken nose, a pulled tooth, or stealing Mike Tyson's tiger.. after that, what else..?

four.. if she can't understand this,, she won't ever "understand" anything.. and unless you are willing to be chained to her 24/7 its time to find some one else..

five 32 years of marriage proves I am right..
 
Uncle Lupe

Uncle Lupe

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I'd drop her like it's HOT!!

Unless she has nice..round...big... beautiful....perky..........eyes. :lookaroun

In which case you can make new friends.
 
wdwjmp239

wdwjmp239

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She's ticked off because she can't go? You had this trip planned before you met her! Tell her to "get over it" and pack your bags because YOU'RE GOING TO DISNEY WORLD!

Now, when you get back and she's gone, she wasn't worth it. I've been in this scenario before and they always leave. Oh well...their loss. Not yours.

Have fun at "The World" :wave:
 
sublimesting

sublimesting

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When I first got together with my wife she had a trip to a lake on a houseboat that she went on with friends every year (guys inluded). The following summer I couldn't make it due to work but I told her to go anyhow as it's her annual trip. Sher went and had a blast and I went to work. Am I mad? Not in the least. I love her and she had a lot of fun. Who am I to try to ruin that? I wish I could have gone to this day as it sounded spectacular but now we go on all of our trips together and have the best time together. She isn't my property she is my wife...wait maybe I mixed that sentence up.... just kidding. :animwink:
 
TalkingHead

TalkingHead

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A Disney theme park fan site is probably not the best place to ask for relationship advice, especially if it relates to a question involving a WDW vacation.
 
SleepingMonk

SleepingMonk

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Laura said:
Did anyone actually read the original post? :rolleyes:

I don't think it's fair to make so many hasty judgements about the girl, knowing absolutely nothing about her.
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R W B

R W B

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Like everyone else is saying, I'd go and not think twice. The trip is paid for, it's been planned for 2 years, in the making for 3 years and you've known her for only 1 year. If you and her are meant to be, she will be there when you get back, if not that's fine too.

I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost 3 years now but I know in your situation my GF would be jealous she couldn't go but who wouldn't be jealous about going on vacation.
 
durangojim

durangojim

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Perhaps the OP should start a new thread with the pic of aforementioned girlfriend and let us all vote if he should keep or dump her.
 

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