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k.hunter30

k.hunter30

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nibblesandbits said:
Agreed...

But you know what...even if you were bitter about it...so what? You have every right to feel a tiny bit of resentment in this situation. Especially when it seems like all around you are pregnant women...that can feel like a HUGE slap in the face...and especially when you've been trying so hard. And she should realize that and understand that...not call you bitter...behind your back.
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nibblesandbits said:
Ice cream might be good...or just dessert in general! You could just go out for dessert. That way, if you want to talk more, you can afterwards...but if you don't, you just let it drop when you're done.

If you went to dinner, it could end up more awkward later...
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PotteryGal said:
Maybe get ice cream and then go to a local park to chat? :shrug: I hope somewhere in there her heart is telling her something's not right....just keep it simple. :kiss:
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Yes... ice cream is good... Okay. I'll touch base with her and make sure that's okay.
 
nibblesandbits

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k.hunter30 said:
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Yes... ice cream is good... Okay. I'll touch base with her and make sure that's okay.
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Sweetie...don't cry...

What is supposed to happen for you all is supposed to happen. Some how, some way though, I know, eventually you will have a kid to call your own...and that will be the luckiest kid in the entire world! :)

I know it seems like so much to take right now...but trust me...you, as much as anyone knows...it's in HIS hands...and it will happen when HE thinks you are ready for it...it's just the waiting that sucks. (And this is coming from the not most religious person either...)
 
k.hunter30

k.hunter30

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nibblesandbits said:
Sweetie...don't cry...

What is supposed to happen for you all is supposed to happen. Some how, some way though, I know, eventually you will have a kid to call your own...and that will be the luckiest kid in the entire world! :)

I know it seems like so much to take right now...but trust me...you, as much as anyone knows...it's in HIS hands...and it will happen when HE thinks you are ready for it...it's just the waiting that sucks. (And this is coming from the not most religious person either...)
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No, I'm okay with that. I am now anyways. As okay as one can be. November through February... I wasn't so okay about that:rolleyes:. But I know there's a plan, and it's better than anything I can imagine. :) I know that. And I KNOW we will be parents (only 3% of infertile couples will end up living a childless life). We're just not meant to be now. And that's okay. B/c I know God is using us for something very special NOW, something that only we can be used for. And I take great comfort in that.

I'm just crying over everything else. I mean, just when I have learned to accept our situation and everything, THIS has to happen. I'm just crying over hurtful friends...
 
PotteryGal

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So OT for a moment: I really shouldn't have picked my 5 favorite sandwiches over on FB so close to dinner time - a cheesesteak sounds soooooo awesome right now. :slurp::slurp:
 
k.hunter30

k.hunter30

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Well... she wanted to do dinner. :-/ So dinner it is.
Talking to her on the phone made me think that I really DO like her. I really do. But I am hurt... and I shouldn't let myself convince me otherwise... but, I do like her...

Oh boy. Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers this evening. I'll check back in after dinner at 6:00 (central)
 
nibblesandbits

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k.hunter30 said:
No, I'm okay with that. I am now anyways. As okay as one can be. November through February... I wasn't so okay about that:rolleyes:. But I know there's a plan, and it's better than anything I can imagine. :) I know that. And I KNOW we will be parents (only 3% of infertile couples will end up living a childless life). We're just not meant to be now. And that's okay. B/c I know God is using us for something very special NOW, something that only we can be used for. And I take great comfort in that.

I'm just crying over everything else. I mean, just when I have learned to accept our situation and everything, THIS has to happen. I'm just crying over hurtful friends...
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((Hugs))

I really hope tonight goes well for you and you can either move on with her...or rid yourself of her...but I think tonight you will figure out what you'll need to do.
 
PotteryGal

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k.hunter30 said:
No, I'm okay with that. I am now anyways. As okay as one can be. November through February... I wasn't so okay about that:rolleyes:. But I know there's a plan, and it's better than anything I can imagine. :) I know that. And I KNOW we will be parents (only 3% of infertile couples will end up living a childless life). We're just not meant to be now. And that's okay. B/c I know God is using us for something very special NOW, something that only we can be used for. And I take great comfort in that.

I'm just crying over everything else. I mean, just when I have learned to accept our situation and everything, THIS has to happen. I'm just crying over hurtful friends...
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Well, you know my theory on that :animwink: - what drives him the most nuts is seeing God's believers content in all circumstances. But we'll move the religious talk to somewhere more private, if you prefer. :o
 
nibblesandbits

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k.hunter30 said:
Well... she wanted to do dinner. :-/ So dinner it is.
Talking to her on the phone made me think that I really DO like her. I really do. But I am hurt... and I shouldn't let myself convince me otherwise... but, I do like her...

Oh boy. Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers this evening. I'll check back in after dinner at 6:00 (central)
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And as I mentioned before...it is quite alright to be hurt. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
 
PotteryGal

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k.hunter30 said:
Well... she wanted to do dinner. :-/ So dinner it is.
Talking to her on the phone made me think that I really DO like her. I really do. But I am hurt... and I shouldn't let myself convince me otherwise... but, I do like her...

Oh boy. Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers this evening. I'll check back in after dinner at 6:00 (central)
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You'll be in my prayers Kat. Super ((Hugs))
 
k.hunter30

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Thanks Jenny, Nibbs and Sammie for being so awesome. (And Joe and Steph!)

I'm glad I opened up about it. Nibbs, I did figure you had an inkling... ;) But yeah, I'm glad I did. Thanks guys for making this an environment in which I could do that.

And to the other people who are reading this, (since there ARE 7 people in here now and I realize it's a public forum) thank you for being sensitive to this personal issue.
 
nibblesandbits

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k.hunter30 said:
Thanks Jenny, Nibbs and Sammie for being so awesome. (And Joe and Steph!)

I'm glad I opened up about it. Nibbs, I did figure you had an inkling... ;) But yeah, I'm glad I did. Thanks guys for making this an environment in which I could do that.
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Honey...first of all...why wouldn't we...
second of all...anytime. :kiss:

This is seriously what we are all here for. To help each other, in good times and bad...it's almost like a marriage...except, well we aren't bound to each other...(which is a good thing...I wouldn't want to be bound to Joe for anything...:hurl: )
 
k.hunter30

k.hunter30

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k.hunter30 said:
Thanks Jenny, Nibbs and Sammie for being so awesome. (And Joe and Steph!)

I'm glad I opened up about it. Nibbs, I did figure you had an inkling... ;) But yeah, I'm glad I did. Thanks guys for making this an environment in which I could do that.

And to the other people who are reading this, (since there ARE 7 people in here now and I realize it's a public forum) thank you for being sensitive to this personal issue.
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nibblesandbits said:
Honey...first of all...why wouldn't we...
second of all...anytime. :kiss:

This is seriously what we are all here for. To help each other, in good times and bad...it's almost like a marriage...except, well we aren't bound to each other...(which is a good thing...I wouldn't want to be bound to Joe for anything...:hurl: )
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:ROFLOL::ROFLOL:

I'm heading out. Wish me luck! :wave:
 
joanna71985

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k.hunter30 said:
Well... she wanted to do dinner. :-/ So dinner it is.
Talking to her on the phone made me think that I really DO like her. I really do. But I am hurt... and I shouldn't let myself convince me otherwise... but, I do like her...

Oh boy. Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers this evening. I'll check back in after dinner at 6:00 (central)
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Good luck Kat! You'll be in my prayers. :kiss:

DisneySam said:
I gotta run for the day guys. BIG (((HUGS))) for everyone.
Talk to you all tomorrow. :kiss::wave:
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Bye Samie!
 
PotteryGal

PotteryGal

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nibblesandbits said:
Honey...first of all...why wouldn't we...
second of all...anytime. :kiss:

This is seriously what we are all here for. To help each other, in good times and bad...it's almost like a marriage...except, well we aren't bound to each other...(which is a good thing...I wouldn't want to be bound to Joe for anything...:hurl: )
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:ROFLOL::ROFLOL::ROFLOL:Couldn't resist, could ya?

So apparently the Barbie doll I am is a goody 2 shoes barbie??? What the bloody heck is that all about?

I really need to stop taking those quizzes on FB. :lookaroun
 

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