Doing the wave with Magic Friends

PotteryGal

Active Member
Hey guys....Kat wanted me to stop by and say she's not up to chatting right now...she'll talk to everybody soon.

I'm probably heading off to bed soon myself - so sleep sweet everyone! :wave:
 

mpoppins76

Well-Known Member
Heading to bed but...
What is going on with Kat????? I have not been here much these past few days and saw Jen's last post...someone please put my mind at ease.
Here's the posts where she explains earlier:
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I love you Jenny.


*sigh*
Pretty much, in a nutshell... DH and I can't have children... at least not without spending thousands of dollars on procedures that MAY work, and with two house payments, that's not going to happen any time soon. My friend knew this back when we had the original baby conversation, so it's not like she would have forgot the baby name. She has said things to me recently about how she doesn't know if being pregnant is worth it b/c it's so hard. She told her mother-in-law, who is in the group I eat lunch with, that we're "infertile" and she took the liberty of sharing that information with my secretary.

What am I missing...? Steph? :lookaroun

EDIT: I told Steph b/c she's pregnant, and I really wanted to make sure I wasn't overreacting, so I needed her opinion. Jenny, you've been so so SO AWESOME for so many months through all this. I didn't share before b/c... well... it's hard. And I wasn't ready. I'm not looking to hear "I know what you're going through" types of things... b/c no one does. Each situation is different. And I just wanted to keep it personal for a while... But... I'm ready to share now. So... there it is. :lookaroun

You forgot to add that when her & her hubby moved to town and didn't know anyone, you & DH befriended them, introduced them to people & the church, and basically took them under your wing. And that since finding out they were pregnant they've started ignoring you and not returning your phone calls.

Last summer/fall a very close friend asked me what baby names I liked. I shared with her several boy options and one girl option (my grandmother's name). She then shared with me her two girl options, she did not have a boy option. She get's pregnant. ...insert a whole bunch of other crud... Then, while in a big group, someone asks her what name she is going with and she says the name I picked. I'm shocked. For more reasons than one, my heart is breaking. I mean... I felt like I could feel it shattering to pieces... I say defeatedly, "That... was.... going to be... my girls'... name." She doesn't blink and eye.

Kat was struggling w/ forgiving and letting it go vs. opening up to her "friend" about how hurtful she's being. They were meeting up tonight.
 
Heading to bed but...

Here's the posts where she explains earlier:






Kat was struggling w/ forgiving and letting it go vs. opening up to her "friend" about how hurtful she's being. They were meeting up tonight.

Stephie, thank you! I kept reading back and missing it.

Kat is a far, far better person than I am...I would have gone with Samantha's reaction on this one (which I will not post, as I have already used that word once on the threads. But, for ______ in the City fans, it's the Baby Shower episode. And may I just state for the record it is literally the only SITC episode I've ever seen, as I don't follow the show and just happened to catch that segment on regular cable. Made me LMAO).
 
I just don't have time to even rest anymore and my health is starting to desperately show that fact. Oof.

I don't like the sound of that. I try not to be Mother Hen with you (though the temptation is strong) as I know you are a big boy, etc. However, you know better than to compromise your health, I don't care if you do come from farm people, you are only human.
 

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