This mirrors me almost exactly. Our trips have always been the same. 10 days in the parks... With MAYBE one day split off for Uni or Sea World (we'd usually alternate between trips).
On our last trip to WDW (the first in a couple years because we have been visiting DL instead), instead of 10 days at the parks, we stayed on the beach in Tampa for three, the Disney parks for 4, Busch Gardens for 1 (which we LOVED) and Uni for 2. And we had a fantastic trip.
We now consider DL our "home resort". But I'm not depressed or upset about it... DL has EARNED our business. They continue to. Don't let it bother you if you end up feeling the same way. WDW may rebound... But in the meantime, there's a FANTASTIC resort in SoCal calling your name.
Not to mention Uni out there, and if you want some thrills, you can't beat Six Flags Magic Mountain. X2 is AMAZING.