The crowds during Spring Break didn't seem that bad to me? :shrug: Maybe because the only other time I've been is mid-June? That was my family's first trip. We loved it, but we were NOT dealing with that heat and humidity again. Also, we don't go during Canadian spring break... And I think most of the states in the South (yes, including OK) have spring break around the same time.
It's bad to not know what you're getting yourself into. Research is your friend. Our first trip, there was a lot of research involved. My mom and my uncle are the planners of our two families, and I think everyone fully realized the amount of resources that were invested into this trip. So research for them was important to ensure they got the biggest bang for their hard-earned buck. I would suggest a second, more prepared trip, or maybe you take the girls yourself. After that, if no one likes it, then okay. It's not their thing.
And for all us Disney lovers, maybe we do need to look in to different vacations? ... Nah. Lol. Although, I do want to visit some other places, and it helps that my bf is not a Disney fanatic. We gotta compromise and without him, I probably would never think about going to Ireland over WDW.